Life Stories

BEE STING CURE (no joke)

2007-07-11T09:01:00.000+08:00

No harm trying out this home remedy for a bee sting.

BEE STING Cure (no joke)

This one from Singapore...dunno how true but just keep 1ct coins in your pocket & see if it works.

Bee/Hornet Cure:

Sharing this information in case you experience the same problem around your home/garden...

A couple of weeks ago I was unfortunate to get stung by both a bee and hornet while working in the garden. My arm swelled so off to the doctor I went. The clinic gave me cream and an antihistamine.

Next day the swelling got progressively worse so off to my regular doctor I went...infected arm needed an antibiotic.**

The interesting thing is what the Doctor told me...

"Next time you get stung put a penny on the bite for 15 minutes."

That night my niece got stung by two bees. When she came over to swim I looked at the bite and it had already started to swell. So off I went to get my money and taped a penny to her arm for 15 minutes. Next morning, there was no sign of a bite. We were very surprised but figured perhaps she just wasn't allergic to the sting.

Then guess what? I got stung again by a hornet twice on my left hand. I was distressed thinking I would have to go to the doctor for yet more antibiotics.

I promptly went into the house, got my money out and taped two pennies to my bites, then sat and sulked for 15 minutes. The penny took the string out of the bite immediately. I still wasn't sure what was going to happen.

In the meantime the hornets were attacking my niece and she got stung on the thumb. Out came another penny. The next morning I could only see a micro spot where I had been stung...no redness, no swelling. I went to see my niece and hers was the same. I couldn't even see where she got stung!

The Doctor said that somehow the copper in the penny counteracts the bite. I would never have believed it. But it DEFINITELY WORKED !

So remember this little bit of wisdom, keep a stock of pennies on hand at school and at home and pass this on.

A Simple and Easy Task for our Safety. (Tips from Bukit Aman)

2007-07-10T10:07:00.000+08:00

Next time you come home for the night and before you put your keys away, think of this :

It's a security alarm system that you probably already have and requires no installation.

Start keeping your car keys next to your bed on the night stand before you go to rest.

If you think someone is trying to get into your house, or if you hear a noise outside your house, just press the alarm button on the remote controller of your car.....

Test it! It should be triggered ON almost when you press in everywhere inside your house and will keep honking until your battery runs down or until you reset it.

If your car alarm is activated when someone is trying to break in your house, odds are the burglar or rapist won't stick around.....after a few seconds all the neighbours will be looking out their windows to see who is out there and sure enough the criminal won't want that.

Try yours to make sure it works before you rely on it. Just know that you must press the alarm button again to turn it off. And remember to carry your keys while walking to your car at the carpark in the evening or while you are alone. The alarm can work the same way there..... So put those car keys and remote controller on the night table now!!!

Or if you're at work, forward this message to your home so that you will remember to do this tonight when you get home. Let the rest of the family know about this too.

And then, forward this to everyone you know. This is something that should really be shared with everyone. Maybe it could save a life or from a sex abuse.

Check the Expiry Date on your Cooking Gas Cylinder

2007-07-02T16:03:00.000+08:00

How do you determine whether the cooking gas cylinder is safe to use, make sure to use one that is yet to expire ... and save our home from disaster.Ramai kat luar sana yang tak tahu. Selinder gas yang dah expired tidak selamat diguna dan boleh menyebabkan accident. So hati-hati bila menerima selinder gas dari penjual gas.

Di sini caranya bagaimana memeriksa selinder gas LPG : Di salah satu sisi selinder gas expiry date akan dikodkan secara alpha-numerical seperti berikut;A , B , C atau D diikuti dua digit, contohnya D06.

Huruf bermaksud suku ke berapa dalam satu tahun -A utk March ( Suku pertama ),B utk June (Suku kedua ),C utk Sept ( Suku ketiga ), &D utk December ( Suku keempat ). 2 digit itu pula menunjukkan sehingga tahun berapa selinder itu selamat digunakan
Jadi D06 bermaksud selamat digunakan sehingga December 2006. Share this message dengan rakan-rakan anda. Ia mungkin dapat menimbulkan kesedaran dan menyelamatkan nyawa.

6-Month-Old: Week 1

2007-06-26T12:33:00.000+08:00

Independent sitting is itself an important skill, but it's also a big step toward learning to crawl. Once your baby can sit up, it's only a matter of a time, strength, and coordination before he lunges forward onto his hands and knees. A few babies start crawling (or getting around via some other form of early locomotion, like scooting) by 6 months, although most take off between 7 and 9 months.

How your baby's growing

As your baby starts becoming more active, he'll appreciate wearing comfy clothes. Opt for soft fabrics that won't chafe him as he's moving around. Loose, stretchy, and breathable clothing is also smart as it provides your energetic little one plenty of wiggle room.Avoid clothes with rough or scratchy seams; long ties, buttons, or bows (could be a choking hazard); and anything else that gets in the way of your baby's sleeping, crawling, playing, or other regular activities.• Learn more fascinating facts about your 6-month-old's development.

Your life: Eating well

Taking care of a baby is, simply put, tiring. Heavy food can make you sleepy afterward, so try to keep meals and snacks light and nutritious.

Don't skip breakfast.
Tempting though it can be when you're rushed, your body needs to refuel after a night's sleep (or especially a night of nonsleep!). Proteins such as eggs or slow-burning carbs like oatmeal will give you energy to last all morning.

Climb the food pyramid.
Aim for those daily 2 1/2 cups of vegetables and 1 1/2 to 2 cups of fruits recommended for women of childbearing age. Keep crudités (cut up raw veggies) on hand in your refrigerator. Add diced vegetables to quesadillas, roll-ups, and casseroles. Fruits can be dried, frozen, or canned — all are healthy for you. Make smoothies from fresh or frozen fruit, fruit juice, and yogurt.

Look beyond junk food for pick-me-ups.
After giving you a quick burst of energy, chips and candy can leave you feeling more sluggish than before. Find more nutritious high-energy alternatives such as baked potato chips, light popcorn, almonds or peanuts, and granola bars. Buy a premade trail mix or concoct your own with chopped or dried fruit, raisins, sunflower or pumpkin seeds, nuts, and coconut flakes or chocolate chips.

Count carbs in.
Carbohydrates are a great source of energy, so think twice about cutting them out entirely in an effort to lose weight. Consider pasta in moderate servings without heavy sauces, for example, or crackers with cheese.

Drink healthy.
Remember to keep hydrated with lots of water. Also try 100 percent fruit juices and energy
drinks, but be aware of their sugar content and remember that caffeinated drinks can cause you to be dehydrated.

3 questions about: Asthma

What is asthma?
Asthma, the most common, serious chronic disease among children, is an inflammation of the lungs' lining and airways that causes difficulty breathing. Allergens, irritants (including cigarette smoke), and viral respiratory infections can cause an asthmatic attack, which can be fatal if not treated appropriately in time. Although it's a serious health situation, with careful management most children with asthma are able to live normal lives.

What are some signs that my baby may have asthma?
Your baby may have asthma if he coughs often, has allergies, eczema, or a family history of these symptoms. Possible signs of an attack include rapid breathing, coughing, wheezing, whistling, sucking in of the skin around the ribs, flaring of the nostrils with each breath, and skin turning blue.If you think your baby is having an asthma attack or any trouble breathing, immediately call 911 or take him to the emergency room.

What should I do if my baby has asthma?
If the diagnosis is asthma, your baby's doctor will discuss the many ways this problem can be managed. Together you can figure out which situations are likely to trigger asthmatic attacks, such as respiratory ailments or something environmental, such as dust. Treatment usually includes a controller medication for prevention and a quick reliever drug, administered via inhaler or a nebulizer machine, for stopping attacks. You'll also need to educate your baby's caregivers about his asthma and its treatment.

Be A Star Celebrity

2007-06-26T11:14:00.000+08:00

StarCeleb is a show hosted by Daniel Tan and May Wan. The show is looking for someone who is interested to become star celebrity, host, brand ambassador and model.

Requirement:

Males or females aged 18 to 30 who are able to speak in English or Mandarin can attend the audition

Prizes:

Only 2 winners will be selected and each will receives RM 50,000 cash prizes and will be offered hosting and modeling contracts. Males or females aged 18 to 30 who are able to speak in English or Mandarin can attend the audition

Date : from 23rd-24th June and 30th-1st July 2007

Location: at Level 2 (Catleya Room) Parkroyal Hotel, Kuala Lumpur.

For those who are interested, kindly grab this opportunity immediately.

Advertlets Blogvertorial opportunity for 50 Bloggers!
It is open to all MALAYSIAN bloggers between 18-30.

Blog language has to be either English / Chinese.

E-mail info@advertlets.com with the subject "StarCeleb Blogvertorial!" and we will approve your whether or not your blog can participate in the blogvertorial program

Click here for more information on what to write & how to participate. Deadline is before 1 July 2007 and limited to 50bloggers only.

bali 1

2007-06-24T15:59:00.001+08:00

why is change needed?

2007-06-23T16:19:00.000+08:00

The story of the eagle...

The eagle has the longest life-span of its species.

It can live up to 70 years.But to reach this age, the eagle must make a hard decision in its 40's.

Its long and flexible talons can no longer grab prey which serves as food.

Its long and sharp beak bent.

Its old-aged and heavy wings, due to their thick feathers, become stuck to its chest and make it difficult to fly.

Then, the eagle is left with only two options: die or go through a painful process of change which lasts 150 days.

The process requires that the eagle fly to a mountain top and sit on its nest.

There the eagle knocks its' beak against a rock until it plucks it out.After plucking it out, the eagle will wait for a new beak to grow back and then it will pluck out its talons.

When its new talons grow back, the eagle starts plucking its old-aged feathers

And after five months, the eagle takes its famous flight of rebirth and lives for...
ADDITIONAL 30 more YEARS!

May times in order to survive, we have to start a change process.

We sometimes need to get rid of old memories, habits and other traditions.

Only freed from past burdens, can we take the advantages of present.

Interesting

2007-06-22T16:52:00.001+08:00

It is soooooooo funnnnnnyyyyyyy (Read fully)

Before the marriage:

He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.
She: Do you want me to leave?
He: NO! Don't even think about it.
She: Do you love me? He: Of course!
She: Have you ever cheated on me?
He: NO! Why you even asking?
She: Will you kiss me?
He: Yes! She: Will you hit me?
He: No way! I'm not such kind of person!
She: Can I trust you?

Now after the marriage read it from bottom to the top !!!!

Check your Elector Status (Pilihanraya)

2007-06-22T15:41:00.000+08:00

http://daftarj.spr.gov.my/

Google adsense -part time job

2007-06-19T15:44:00.001+08:00

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Father’s day celebration

2007-06-18T15:29:00.000+08:00

My hubby told me that he want to bake cake during father’s day last 2 weeks, I thought he just kidding. On that father’s day, is sunday. We brought our baby went to youth park in the morning. After that, went for lunch. When the time we back, the time was already 2:30 pm. His brother said that he miss the Malaysia durian, so we bought it and eat at home.

After eating, they all went back to their house, my hubby bring out all the cake ingredients, and preheat the oven. I was helping him besides to measure the ingredients-flour, milk, butter and wash the plate.

He was so enjoy to mix the cake ingredients by using the electric mixer and prepare the cake crumble. Look at him, I feel happy also as next time he might bake the cake for me, Just wonder got this opportunity or not ??

He poured the cake into the bake pan and put it into the oven. It baked for an hour, the cake was successfully made, almost like the one show in the recipe book. Quite satisfied also.hehe..:)

Then we brought it to the father’s day celebration party, let all the father’s cut the cake together. Luckily the cake able to finish all, his grandmother took 3 pieces of cake somemore, not bad huh…just that the cake got a bit sweet…so I think next time perhaps he can reduce the sugar, no need to follow exactly per the recipe. That’s his first cake – Pumpkin Almond Cake.

5-month-old: Week 4

2007-06-15T09:58:00.000+08:00

Your baby's development is now working in your favor when she's fussy: She's increasingly distractible. Intensely interested in the world around her, her rapidly evolving brain zeroes in on things that are new and different. So when your baby is a little cranky, use her growing interest in novelty to your advantage by making a funny noise, singing a song, gently banging a pot — any change from the norm may snap her out of her grumpy mood.
How your baby's growing

Your baby now sees and hears the world almost as well as you do. Her communication skills are expanding rapidly, too, as evidenced by her squeals, bubbling sounds, and operatic octave changes. Her sounds can demonstrate her attitude or response to objects — such as happiness, eagerness, or even satisfaction — with a problem well solved.

At this age, about half of babies babble, repeating one syllable — such as "ba," "ma," "ga," or other consonant-vowel combinations — over and over. A few will even add another syllable or two, making their sounds more complex.

You can encourage your baby by babbling right back at her and by making a game of it ("The sheep says, 'baaa,'" or "The goat says, 'maaa'"). Or, when you hear a syllable you can't identify, just respond enthusiastically with, "Yes, that is a car! See how shiny the red paint is?" Your baby will appreciate your encouraging her by keeping the conversation going.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 5-month-old's development.

Your life: Coping with not enough sleep

When sleep deprivation is a way of life, it can be hard to function by day. Co-workers who aren't baby wrangling may have little idea of what you're up against. You need a three-pronged approach:
1. More sleep for your baby. At this age, most babies are able to sleep through the night. If yours can't, look into sleep-training methods. Browse our collection of baby sleep articles for ideas.
2. More sleep for you. Try a few of these tricks:
• Take a short nap during your break time at work, if you can.
• Simplify and/or delegate some daily chores so you can get a break.
• Go to bed early and let your partner put the baby down for the evening.
• Establish a consistent sleep-wake cycle. Try to wake up and get to sleep at the same times every day.
3. Good-quality sleep when you do rest. Some ideas for getting the most out of your zzz's:
• Talk to your doctor about herbal remedies and over-the-counter sleep aids if you have trouble getting to sleep. Sometimes getting help in order to induce a few nights' rest is all you need to reset your body clock.
• Make your bedroom sleep-friendly. Keep work and chores off the bed (and, ideally, out of the room). Make sure your mattress is comfortable — if you've had it for eight to ten years, it may be time for a newer, firmer one. Adjust the light, temperature, and noise in your bedroom to your liking. In general, the darker, cooler, and quieter it is, the better. Keep the TV out of the bedroom and turn the radio off.
• Relax before bedtime so you can nod off faster and sleep more soundly. Ways to unwind include drinking warm milk, practicing yoga, stretching, progressive muscle relaxation, deep breathing, and getting a massage.
• Take care of yourself in other ways. Eat nutritious meals and light snacks, avoid caffeine (at least after noon), and exercise regularly. Try to get the most difficult or tiring work you have to do done early in the day, and wind down as the day goes on.

3 questions about: Immunizations

What vaccines should I expect at the 6-month checkup?
The doctor will probably give your baby the HepB, DTaP, and Hib vaccines. The HepB vaccine protects against the hepatitis B virus; the DTaP vaccine against diphtheria, tetanus and pertussis (whooping cough); and the Hib vaccine against Haemophilus influenzae type b bacteria (which can cause bacterial meningitis, pneumonia, or epiglottitis).

How can I make getting shots less traumatic for my baby?
Ask if you can hold your baby in your lap, rather than having him lie on the examining table. Stay calm and distract him by speaking to him in an engaging, soothing voice. Your baby will pick up on your body language. Offer your baby a bottle, breast, or pacifier afterward to soothe crying via sucking. There's some evidence that breastfeeding a baby during an immunization, if feasible, results in less crying and distress. Generally, though, shots are more traumatic for the mother than the baby, who tends to get over the pinch quickly.

My baby is big and healthy now — does he really need vaccines?
In a word, absolutely. The shots your baby has received so far don't offer complete protection. Many vaccines are given in a series over time in order to provide full immunity. Immunizations protect against many diseases that once killed or maimed thousands of children. These serious diseases, including pertussis (whooping cough) and diphtheria, are still common in some places. The risks of not being immunized far outweigh the relatively slight risks, which can include irritability, fever, redness at the site, and crying. More serious reactions, such as seizures and allergic reactions, are very rare. Watch your baby carefully after she's been immunized and report anything more unusual than minor reactions to the doctor.

Niece's birthday Gift

2007-06-14T11:30:00.001+08:00

Next week, is my niece one year old. No idea what to give him as a birthday gift. He already had a lot of toys. At first want to buy the small swimming pool as he likes water, let him swim at his house’s garden there. But heard that his uncle who staying in Singapore already bought to him so I have to think again. I am asking around my friend and colleagues, they gave me the answer is like that give him Ang Pao (money) more reality.

Steam roasted pork Dinner

2007-06-13T13:18:00.000+08:00

Cindy sitting at the car seat biting her leg while we are having home cook dinner yesterday night. I am so surprise that she didn’t erk..erk…erk…want us to hug her. We just leave her alone playing her toys there. Good..next time I know what to do already when we are having dinner at home.

I cooked steam roasted pork for dinner, my FIL keep on asking me is it cooked by you? I replied him said that yes…is cooked by me. He cant believe that I can cook for this dishes..keep on praised that is very yummy..i told him that will cook again when BIL back from china this coming Thursday.

Dont drink bottled water Kept in Car

2007-06-12T13:46:00.001+08:00

This information was given to me by my friend and Iknow all the ladies in my life should know and please forward it to all the ladies in your life.

She has a friend whose mother recently got diagnosed with breast cancer. The doctor told her women should not drink bottled water that has been left in a car. The doctor said that theheat and the plastic of the bottle have certain chemicals that canlead to breast cancer. So please be careful and do not drink thatwater bottle that has been left in a car and pass this on to all the women in your life.This information is the kind we need to know and be aware and just might save us!!!!

Ghost stories

2007-06-12T13:45:00.001+08:00

Ghost Story #1

When I was young, I lived in a deserted kampong deep in the jungle. Every night, my mother would ask me not to go home too late as there won't be any transportation after a certain time. One night, before going home, I ta pao a kueh teow soup for supper. I was late and I waited for the taxi/bus but there was none. I was getting worried as the night was getting darker and darker. So I tried to flag down private vehicles to take me home. There was no one stopping for me, till one motorcyclist took compensation on me and stopped to give me a lift. He was a man with a kind face. I accepted his offer and got onto his motorbike. On the way home, we would pass by a temple. At night, the temple would look eerily spooky with the dim lights from the candles. At first, the motorcyclist was warm and friendly. When the temple was approaching, the motorcyclist eyes grown bigger and bigger. His kind face turned to a face of anger. He was muttering something loud but was not audible to me. I was so scared that I closed my eyes in order not to see his angry face. Then, the motorcyclist stopped in front of the temple and then yelled at me. "Your kueh teow soup is so hot!! It is burning my thigh! Can you please move it away???"

Ghost Story #2

When I was young, I have two friends who were very close to each other. They played with each other everyday. It was like, if you see A, you would see B next to him. They were always together. A loved fried eggs. Whenever he went out for lunch or dinner, without fail, he would ask for fried egg on top of his noodles, fried rice, etc. One day, A involved in an accident and died. B was devastated. B went to the cemetery to pray everyday. He would go to the nearest restaurant and ta pao a box of fried rice with an egg on top to be offered to A when he went to pray to him. The next day, he opened the box and there was no egg inside! B was petrified. He thought, must be A who came and took the fried egg away.The same thing happened the next day and the day after that. B was confused. So, one day, he asked the chef to make the same fried rice with a fried egg again. Then, he went to the cemetery to offer it to A. Curious, he opened the box to check for the egg. He was angry to find that, there was no fried egg in the box after all. Feeling that he had been cheated, he went back to the restaurant and demanded to see the Chef. "Where is the fried egg?? I told you there must be a fried egg inside!! You have cheated me for a few days now! Gimme back my money!!" Then, the Chef got really angry and opened the box - the fried egg was inside the box. The Chef said, "Stupid! You open the box upside down. No wonder you cannot see the egg!!"

Ghost Story #3

When I was young, I went to town to work with a group of friends during our summer holidays of two months. Being young and away from home for the first time, we drank and smoke like nobody's business. One night, we were pissed drunk and flagged the last bus down to go home.Being tired, we slept in the bus. It had been awhile that I fell asleep. I was awake by the chilly wind. I was shocked to find that there was no one in the bus, and I was the last passenger. I looked in front to check out for the driver. But the driver was no where in sight. Yet, the bus was moving. I panicked shitless. I rubbed my eyes to make sure that I was not dreaming. The night was dark and cold. I hysterically jumped out from the bus and tried to run as hard as I could to get away. Then I heard someone yelled at me from behind the bus."Hey! Don't run away! Come over here and help to push the bus!" yelled the bus driver. I saw my other friends helping to push the bus, which broke down while I was asleep.

Brother In law

2007-06-12T13:43:00.000+08:00

We are cracking our head, thinking of what to prepare for welcome BIL who will back on this coming Thursday from china- Shenzhen . He told my hubby that he miss her mother’s cook very much. Due to my MIL recently not very strong, so we want to make something for him to eat on behalf of my MIL. Perhaps we will make sushi for him tomorrow night.

He went there since this year Feb until now, about half year already.. He miss my daughter so much also, always ask my MIL that don’t know whether she still can recognise him or not when he back from china. That time when he went to china, she only 2 months old. We can see her a huge different from photo as she is growing already.

Wake up at midnnight

2007-06-12T09:54:00.000+08:00

I thought she can sleep it over whole night already, when I bring her back during weekday night, she still awake every 3 hour at midnight. She sleep besides me right now, so I will alert when she wake up, I know that she definitely will turn left then turn right, and keep on erk ..erk. while she is hungry. Actually sometimes she is not hungry one, she just get used of her drinking schedule drink every 3 hours. So what I am going to do is that I will ignore her first, want to train up her no need to drink at midnight..let her erk..erk for a while, if she cannot tahan sure will cry loudly then I only feed her. But at the moment I am still not success to train her, I heard my friend said that breastfeeding baby is like that one, not sure is true or not.

How to achieve good vision during heavy downpour, while you are driving.

2007-06-11T13:53:00.000+08:00

We are not sure how effective it is, just try this method when it rains heavily.

This method was told by a Police friend who had experienced and confirmed it.... it is useful...even driving at night.

Most of the motorists would turn on HIGH or FASTEST SPEED of the wipers during heavy downpour, yet the visibilty in front of the windscreen is still bad.....Thus, in the event you face such situation, just try your SUN GLASSES ( any model will do), and miracle...All of a sudden, your visibility in front of your windscreen are perfectly clear, as if there is no rain.................

Try it yourself and share it with your friends..............

Make sure you have a pair of SUN GLASSES in your car, you are not only helping yourself to drive safely with good vision, but also you might save your friends's life when driving in the rain................

Venpar

2007-06-08T16:28:00.000+08:00

Venture Alliance Partners(Venpar) is one of the leading providers for private equity which is dedicated to help entrepreneurs and investors build the world-class companies. It had managed to show excellent and outstanding result for their client with the list of partner and strong portfolio.

With the strong market segmented and focused from Venpar, will help the client to build the own and ensure a significant return beyond your original investment. If you are an entrepreneur, you can submit your business plan toVenpar for review and they will take care of your documents with confidentiality.

Online business

2007-06-08T16:06:00.000+08:00

My father plans to do business online. He ask me to find for him the product offer lately, that can provides quick and free access to his company profiles, contact information and description of his product and services.

I am sure he will feel happy if I tell him that masterseek’s global search engine got this kind of services, it has more than 45 million companies in 75 countries. Besides that, it also offer to search in your own country or worldwide and find business partners, sales opportunities and new avenues to expand business and increase company profitability, just need to enter company profiles and showcase of the product and services to the global community.

Bloggerwave

2007-06-08T15:30:00.000+08:00

Bloggerware recently just launched, is now live. They are aggressively looking for the blogger.

Don’t miss this good opportunity, please grabs it on time, sign up ASAP! You just need to create one blog, publish your post and share with your friend. It can be your part time business anytime. Enjoy blogging + Earn money :).

5-Month-Old: Week 3

2007-06-07T11:39:00.000+08:00

You've got to hand it to your baby — his hand control is definitely improving. You may see him rake objects toward himself and try to pick them up. Most 5-month-olds grasp an object for just a short while and then drop it. Yours will spend a long time doing this over and over if you play along by picking up objects and handing them back. Your indulging him in this game is also teaching a basic lesson in cause-and-effect — one he'll learn well, to uproarious giggles, before long.

How your baby's growingYour baby's getting better at spotting very small objects and tracking moving things. At this point, he may be able to recognize an object after seeing only part of it — like his favorite toy peeking out from under the couch. This will be the basis of little hide-and-seek games you'll be playing in the coming months.

He can also follow an object out of his view. Your baby will reach for a block (or another object) on a table if you hold him close to it, and once he's got one, he may just go after a second.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 5-month-old's development.

Your life: Using a babysitter
Starting to use a babysitter is a big decision. Perhaps the hardest part is finding and choosing someone you like and trust, especially if family members or close friends are unavailable. Asking friends, neighbors, and others who are young parents for references is a great way to locate candidates. Some areas have babysitting agencies through which you can hire a prescreened candidate. Or try the student employment office at a local school or college.

Another option is to swap babysitting time with another parent or couple. Babysitting co-ops are larger, more formalized swapping groups in which a group of friends take turns sitting for one another's kids.

There are a number of important factors to consider when choosing a babysitter, including age, experience, and knowledge of infant CPR and first aid. Asking for references is a good start, as is a thorough interview to help you gauge the sitter's character, personality, and qualifications. Watch the babysitter interact with your baby, too. A preteen or teen who may be too young to stay alone with your baby could be hired as a "mother's helper" — someone to help watch the baby while you work or do jobs around the house.

Once you choose a babysitter, it's wise to ask her to come a little early so you can spend time together. Let her hold your baby while you prepare her by going over your baby's routines. Give her important information, too: contact numbers for getting in touch with you and the doctor, as well as the emergency room in the rare case it might be needed, an escape route from your home, the location of first-aid and emergency supplies, your baby's medical information, and healthcare authorization in case you're unavailable. In terms of compensation, it's a good idea to ask other local parents what the going rate is.

3 questions about: Growth charts

Why do doctors monitor babies' growth?
Your baby's doctor looks for an overall growth pattern by measuring your baby's weight, length (or height), and head circumference and comparing it with both national averages and previous measurements. Sudden changes from this pattern or extreme measurements may indicate a problem with feeding or absorbing nutrients, an illness, or a developmental problem.

What do "percentiles" mean?
Your baby's doctor will tell you that your baby ranks at a specific percentile on a growth chart. It's a way of comparing your baby with the full spectrum of babies. So if your baby is in the 25th percentile for weight, for example, this means that 25 percent of babies the same age and gender in the United States weigh less and 75 percent weigh more.

What if my baby seems ahead or behind?
Don't worry too much if your baby isn't close to average size. Your baby grows at an individual pace. Growth spurts may have him speeding up the chart one month or one year and then leveling back the next. Some babies are naturally larger or smaller because of their genetics. Another reason not to fixate on a number on a growth chart is that your baby's well-being involves a variety of factors, including development, temperament, and activity level, not just growth. If you have concerns, talk to your baby's doctor and she'll be able to tell you whether there's anything to worry about.

Massage

2007-06-07T10:49:00.000+08:00

It’s believed that by massaging the relevant part/s of the palm, foot and body will enhance your health --- reflexiology. You may DIY or ask your partner to assist on it.

Food as Medicine

2007-06-06T15:15:00.001+08:00

HEADACHE? EAT FISH!
Eat plenty of fish -- fish oil helps prevent headaches. So does ginger, which reduces inflammation and pain.

HAVE FEVER? EAT YOGURT!
Eat lots of yogurt before pollen season. Also-eat honey from your area (local region) daily.

TO PREVENT STROKE DRINK TEA!
Prevent buildup of fatty deposits on artery walls with regular doses of tea. (actually, tea suppresses appetite and keeps the pounds from invading....Green tea is great for our immune system)!

INSOMNIA (CAN'T SLEEP?) HONEY!
Use honey as a tranquilizer and sedative.

ASTHMA? EAT ONIONS!!!!
Eating onions helps ease constriction of bronchial tubes. (make onion packs to place on our chest, helped the respiratory ailments and actually made us breathe better).

ARTHRITIS? EAT FISH, TOO!!
Salmon, tuna, mackerel and sardines actually prevent arthritis. (fish has omega oils, good for our immune system)

UPSET STOMACH? BANANAS - GINGER!!!!!
Bananas will settle an upset stomach. Ginger will cure morning sickness and nausea.

BLADDER INFECTION? DRINK CRANBERRY JUICE!!!!
High-acid cranberry juice controls harmful bacteria.

BONE PROBLEMS? EAT PINEAPPLE!!!
Bone fractures and osteoporosis can be prevented by the manganese in pineapple.

PREMENSTRUAL SYNDROME? EAT CORNFLAKES!!!!
Women can ward off the effects of PMS with cornflakes, which help reduce depression, anxiety and fatigue.

MEMORY PROBLEMS? EAT OYSTERS!
Oysters help improve your mental functioning by supplying much-needed zinc.

COLDS? EAT GARLIC! Clear up that stuffy head with garlic. (remember, garlic lowers cholesterol, too.)

COUGHING? USE RED PEPPERS!!
A substance similar to that found in the cough syrups is found in hot red pepper. Use red (cayenne) pepper with caution-it can irritate your tummy.

BREAST CANCER? EAT Wheat, bran and cabbage Helps to maintain estrogen at healthy levels.

LUNG CANCER? EAT DARK GREEN AND ORANGE AND VEGGIES!!!
A good antidote is beta carotene, a form of Vitamin A found in dark green and orange vegetables.

ULCERS? EAT CABBAGE ALSO!!! Cabbage contains chemicals that help heal both gastric and duodenal ulcers.

DIARRHEA? EAT APPLES!
Grate an apple with its skin, let it turn brown and eat it to cure this condition. (Bananas are good for this ailment)

CLOGGED ARTERIES? EAT AVOCADO!
Mono unsaturated fat in avocados lowers cholesterol.

HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE? EAT CELERY AND OLIVE OIL!!!
Olive oil has been shown to lower blood pressure. Celery contains a chemical that lowers pressure too.

BLOOD SUGAR IMBALANCE? EAT BROCCOLI AND PEANUTS!!! The chromium in broccoli and peanuts helps regulate insulin and blood sugar.

Kiwi: Tiny but mighty. This is a good source of potassium, magnesium, Vitamin E &fiber. It's Vitamin C content is twice that of an orange.

Apple: An apple a day keeps the doctor away? Although an apple has a low Vitamin C content, it has antioxidants &flavonoids which enhances the activity of Vitamin C thereby helping to lower the risks of colo! n cancer, heart attack & stroke.

Strawberry: Protective fruit. Strawberries have the highest total antioxidant power among major fruits &protects the body from cancer causing, blood vessels clogging free radicals. (Actually, any berry is good for you..they're high in anti-oxidants and they actually keep us young.........blueberries are the best and very versatile in the health field........they get rid of all the free-radicals that invade our bodies)

Orange: Sweetest medicine. Taking 2 - 4 oranges a day may help keep colds away, lower cholesterol, prevent & dissolve kidney stones as well as lessen the risk of colon cancer.

Watermelon: Coolest Thirst Quencher. Composed of 92% water, it is also packed with a giant dose of glutathione which helps boost our immu ne system. They are also a key source of lycopene - the cancer fighting oxidant. Other nutrients found in watermelon are Vitamin C &Potassium. (watermelon also has natural substances [natural SPF sources] that keep our skin healthy, protecting our skin from those darn suv rays)

Guava &Papaya: Top awards for Vitamin C. They are the clear winners for their high Vitamin C content. Guava is also rich in fiber which helps prevent constipation. Papaya is rich in carotene, this is good for your eyes. (also good fo r gas and indigestion)

Tomatoes are very good as a preventative measure for men, keeps those prostrate problems from invading their bodies

5-Month-Old: Week 2

2007-06-04T11:36:00.000+08:00

Have you noticed how your baby turns to you when she hears your voice? Her expressions of attentiveness to you are really gratifying after the many hours of hard work you've logged in taking care of her. What seemed rather one-sided for so long is beginning to blossom into a truly interactive relationship. Don't be surprised if, more and more often, you feel like dropping everything just to get down on the floor and have fun with your baby.

How your baby's growing

Your baby may start showing signs of one of her first major emotional milestones — stranger anxiety. She may become clingy and anxious around new (and even familiar!) people and may cry if a stranger suddenly approaches her.

Keep this in mind when you're around people she doesn't know, and try not to be embarrassed when she cries in someone else's arms — just take her back and calm her down by holding her yourself. Tell your friends and family to approach your little one with slow gentle movements.

A case of stranger anxiety doesn't mean you have to avoid new faces. Your baby will benefit from getting used to being around people other than you and your partner. Just remember that she needs your patience and understanding to get through this very important stage of development.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 5-month-old's development.

Your life: Getting your baby used to other people

When you were pregnant, you may have worried about whether your baby would bond with you. And now you find that the two of you are so tight, your baby howls with protest if anybody else comes near — even your partner, to his chagrin. When your baby rejects anyone else, it can be hard on that person, and it means more work for you. That's why getting used to other people is an important part of your baby's socialization.

A strong, lasting bond grows through regular day-to-day interactions, so encourage Dad to get involved in even the most basic baby care tasks, like changing diapers, bathing, and feeding. Have him carry your baby around when he's going about his day, and fit in playtime, too. Keep your distance at first so your baby can't hear or smell you. One idea: Divide baby care chores so your partner handles the daily bath or the bedtime routine every evening.

Expose your baby to friends and family, too. Try holding your baby while the other person talks and plays with him. Then hand him over to the other person and stay close. Eventually, leave briefly and come back. Repeat this step, making the interval you're away longer and longer.

3 questions about: Constipation

How will I know if my baby's constipated?T
here's no such thing as a normal number of bowel movements a day. When — and how often — your baby moves his bowels can depend on when and what he eats, his level of activity, and how rapidly his body digests food. However, your baby may be constipated if any of the following are the case:
• His stools are hard and dry.
• Three days have passed since his last bowel movement.
• He shows discomfort moving his bowels.

What causes it?
If your baby is being fed only breast milk, constipation is rare. See your pediatrician if his stools are hard and dry: When combined with other symptoms such as vomiting or a swollen tummy, this could indicate a blocked intestine.If your baby takes only formula, the particular brand he's drinking may not agree with him. Ask your doctor about switching brands.If you've introduced rice cereal to your baby's diet as a first step toward solid foods, the cereal could be the culprit — it's quite low in fiber. Try adding pureed fruits or vegetables to the cereal, or switching to oat or barley cereal instead.Constipation can also be caused by dehydration, so giving your baby more fluids can help. If he's already been introduced to juice, try giving him one ounce of prune juice diluted with one ounce of water.

How can I help?Aside from changes to your baby's diet, here are a few more tricks for getting bowels back on track:
• Wiggle your baby's legs in a gentle bicycle-type fashion while he's lying on his back.
• Gently but firmly massage his belly below his navel. If you feel a firm area, keep a steady pressure there for a few minutes.
• Use a glycerin suppository, but only with your pediatrician's approval.

Practice For Good Health

2007-06-03T15:42:00.000+08:00

Are you following this?

There are 12 important organs in our body, which will be at its peak for two hours a day. Normal health or disease of any person depends on this Factor. To lead a healthy life, one should learn one's own body functioning language.

Time Organs Remarks

Early Morning 3-5 AM

LUNGS - It is good to wake up at this hour. The ozone content in atmosphere will be more at this time, which will give a new lease of energy if we practice breathing exercise, yogasanas and meditation. Asthma patient cannot sleep in this time and will suffer breathlessness.

Morning5-7 AM

LARGE INTESTINE - If a person gets up in this time will not have constipation problem. If bowel's movement and taking bath in cold waterare done during this time, then he will not have any nervous debility.

7-9 AM

STOMACH - Breakfast should be completed during this time.

9-11 AM

SPLEEN - It is better to avoid eating. If food is taken in this time, it will increase body temperature, tiredness will increase and digestion power will come down. Particularly diabetic patient will suffer from palpitation, drowsiness etc.

Noon 11-1 PM

HEART- Only water can be taken at this time. One shall neither do any hard work nor sleep at this time. Otherwise more carbon-di-oxide will get mixed with oxygen and chances of getting heart attack or paralytic attack or body pain are likely. Generally doctors will be on double alert in hospitals during this time because heart and diabetic patients may get heart attack during this time compared to other hours.

Mid Day1-3 PM

SMALL INTESTINE - After taking lunch, 5 minutes of rest can be taken just by closing eyes. Sleep shall be avoided.

Afternoon3-5 PM

URINARY BLADDER - It is the right time for coffee, tea or juice etc.

Evening5-7 PM

KIDNEY - This is the time to relax from routine work otherwise renal failure or urinary infection may trouble.

Night7-9 PM

HEART WALL - Supper should have been completed during this hour. Otherwise palpitation or chest pain may arise.

Late Night9-11 PM

TEMPERATURE WARMER - This is the time to recharge the organs that worked since morning. So one shall go down to sleep and avoid reading books, watching TV or working with office files.

Mid Night11-1 PM

GALL BLADDER - One must sleep during this time otherwise one will not have any energy for next day work.

Too early morning1-3 AM

LIVER - This is the time for deep sleep. Otherwise it will affect eyesight and body irritation.

Living in accordance with the above listed clock of organs enhanced with yogasanas will illuminate color and health. This has been prescribed in Yogasastra.

Advertlets Review

2007-05-31T17:03:00.000+08:00

Good news for all the Malaysian. Now Advertlets giving RM50 each away to 300 Advertlets Bloggers, just for you to review their service on your blog! That’s RM15,000 in total. Please join me to sign up with Advertlets. Hurry Up! Don’t miss this good opportunity, it closes by 31st May 2007.

Is free of charge to signup with Advertlets, you just need to
- install Advertlets code on your blog
- fill in your personal particulars and payments details.

RM50 will be credited to your account immediately upon writing any 2 of the topics request by Advertlet, so simple !!

Advertlets also had the “sponsored post” programs available on the net, the difference of Advertlets Compared with Other Online Advertising Services is Advertlets has local products/services/events to review, and that we will always hold this up to a high level of integrity.

Another good things is that Adverlets is an Asian better blog advertising network, we area easily to receive money through cheque, no need to crack our head how to transfer money to our local bank account, In the future Adverlets will offer Maybank2u, and also prepaid reloads.

Viralink to increase page rank

2007-05-29T15:08:00.001+08:00

TIPS on how to increase your page rank by Andy Coates, posted by Antokid .

Below is a matrix of 120 stars, I have already added a link to my blog onto one of the stars, all you need to do is copy and paste the grid into your blog and add your own link to one of the other spare stars, and tell others to do the same!

Viralink

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When I receive a ping back once you have added the Viralink to your site I will add your link to this grid, and each person who copies the grid from here will also link to your site!

Bali trip

2007-05-28T23:00:00.000+08:00

Last week, we went to Bali for vacation, stay there for 5 days and 4 night.

We enjoy the trip very much, is a nice place for vacation, rest, relax ....On our first day tour, Upon arrival at Bali Ngurah Rai International Airport, the tour guide sent us to the Harris Kuta hotel which is a 4 star and modern style hotel, 2 colours represent their hotel images, which is orange and white.

At 4 pm, we depart to the uluwatu temple, the mysterious holly ancient temple, built since 16 century by the Indian Priest from India. Is one the important and magnificent ancient monument for Balinese people. This temple is located at the level of 250 feet's above sea level on the cliff of southern point of Pura Luhur with cycloramic views. In other words, from sunrise to sunset.

There are a lot of fierce monkeys there. I had a very bad experience over there, we were told by the tour guide that cannot wear spec, hat, bracelet, as they will grap it. I walked besides my hubby, never thought that his backpack still attached with the key chain. And I became the victim while the monkey grap it, the monkey climbed through my shoulder and knocked my head, grapped it. Really terrible experience I had in my life....be careful next time if you go there.

We had our candle light dinner at Tanjong Benoa Beach-Jimbaran seafood restaurant during sun set, all the tables located at the beach, sea view, the environment there are so romantic :)

Second day of our tour, begin with the traditional Barong and Kris Dance, visited the village of Celuk, famous of its gold and silver work, the village of MAS, a wood carving center, an artist's colony and handicraft centers at Ubud, a sacred holy spring temple at Tampaksiring, the mysterious Elephant Cave and finally Kintamani village, perched on the rim of the Batur Volcanic basin.

On the third day, we had visited an ancient Mengwi Royal Family's Taman Ayun Temple. The famous Beretan Lake Temple built in 11th century, Mysterious Alas Kedaton Monkey forest, and finally Tanah Lot, a temple which Perched on a rocky outcrop in the sea located at the west coasts of Bali, in time for sunset. That is the place that you should not missed to see it.

On the following day tour, we went to Sukawati for shopping, is a cheapest market where you can grap a lot of souvenier as all the goods selling there are first hand, is a main central, they will out source all their goods to different area. No doubt you also can purchase the goods from different area at lower prices provided that you know how to bargain the price from 50 - 70 % discount off.

Last day of our tour, after having the breakfast at hotel, without having much time, we just walk leisurely surrounded the hotel, notice that few peopls sitting nearby the swimming pool there for Yoga lesson, is free of charge, so we joined it as well. After the lesson finished, we chat with the yoga instructor for a while, he told us that usually he will charge his student one lesson for USD15. So, we feel that this hotel, quite impress us, as having this kind of service.

5-Month-Old: Week 1

2007-05-24T11:32:00.000+08:00

Your baby will soon master the art of sitting up unsupported. Give her the opportunity to sit up in different places, and take her on outings in a stroller. The time your baby spends sitting up helps her develop and maintain balance, a key part of her physical development. What's more, making use of the new perspective helps her cognitive development, too.

How your baby's growing

Your baby can't express his emotions in the same complex way that you can. Although he can let you know in clear ways when he's angry, bored, or happy, his ability to show love and humor are just developing.

Your baby also shows a strong attachment to you by raising his arms when he wants to be picked up and by crying when you leave the room. He may also give you hugs and kisses.And he's beginning to get the joke — he'll laugh at funny expressions and try to make you laugh, too. Keep the laughter flowing with your silly faces!

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 5-month-old's development.

Your life: Sex as new parents

Finding the time and energy for sex as new parents is challenging enough. And then there's the small matter of the third party in your room or down the hall, ready to wail at the least opportune moment. But with a little planning and effort, anything is possible!

Flirt. Flirting isn't the same as foreplay. It's sexual play without the intention of immediate sexual activity. Flirting with your partner (in person, on the phone, or by e-mail, for example) helps both of you get in the mood.

Time it right. You don't always have to "sleep when the baby sleeps." At nap time or bedtime after your baby's had a busy session of play or outside activity, you can feel pretty assured of your baby's sleeping for at least an hour.

Make a "date." You don't have to dress up and go out — simply plan ahead to stay in. When you're parents, sharing massages or taking a shower together while the baby sleeps counts as a date.

Keep a sense of humor. Be ready for things not to go as usual. If you're breastfeeding, for instance, you may see some milk leak or spray (so have a towel handy). If your baby does start to cry, don't rush to her rescue; wait a few minutes to see if she settles back to sleep. If she does settle down, you may find that the mood has been broken anyway. Don't call the whole thing off. Start back with slow, gentle foreplay and see what happens.

3 questions about: Your baby's noggin

Should I do anything if my baby's head looks flat?
A flattish head is usually the result of sleeping too much in one position and isn't a cause for concern. Mention it to your doctor, who can evaluate it. In rare cases, a specialist may advise treatment such as cranial orthotic therapy involving headgear. Flattish skulls have become more commonplace since babies began to be placed on their backs to sleep to prevent SIDS. Although the condition is harmless, some parents look into pricey helmets to prevent or correct flatness. You can do the same by giving your baby "tummy time" during the day to play and alternating at which end of the crib you place your baby's head. (Even when lying on their backs, babies tend to turn their head away from the wall to look around.) Flatness usually goes away as your baby grows.

What should I do if my baby is losing hair or has a bald spot?
Again, it's the situation your baby finds himself in, not a serious health problem, that causes most baby baldness. Keeping his head in the same position, rubbing it against his mattress, or banging it against the sides of his crib may cause some hair loss. This stops when he eventually changes his behavior. Babies born with lots of hair often lose it as hormone levels drop. It's very rare for a baby younger than 6 months to have other causes of hair loss, such as the autoimmune disorder alopecia areata or ringworm.

When will my baby's hair grow in?
This is hard to predict. Some babies grow in new hair soon after the old is lost, while for others it seems to take longer. The color and texture of this new hair may be significantly different from the hair your baby was born with.

4-Month-Old: Week 4

2007-05-22T11:26:00.000+08:00

Hearing your baby laugh is not only a joy — it's a sign he's developing emotionally and socially. Have fun triggering a giggle by gently tickling his toes or chubby thighs. Or develop a pint-size comedy routine by making exaggerated facial expressions and funny animal sounds, snorts, and whistles. Don't be surprised if your baby tries to join in with an ecstatic squeal designed to catch your attention and make you laugh back.

How your baby's growing

Following a well-established nighttime routine, which might include a bath or a bedtime story, for example, may help settle your baby to sleep. It's a good idea to consistently "sequence" your baby toward slumber: Feed her, give her a bath, put her in her pajamas, play a game, read her a book, sing songs or play some music, then put her down.

A beloved routine gives you and your baby plenty of time to connect and wind down. You may decide to alternate going-to-bed activities with your partner (you do the bath, he reads the story, and so on). Or, to give both of you a regular break, try taking turns, with one person responsible for putting your baby to bed each night.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 4-month-old's development.

Your life: Taking care of you

After the intensity of adjusting to life with a new baby, many parents reach a point where they find they're like ostriches lifting their heads out of the sand to discover a wider world out there — the one they took leave of, temporarily, after the birth. The redundancy and endlessness of baby care can also be very different from the pace at work if you're used to a goal-oriented job or lots of adult interaction.

Six ways to restore a little balance:
1. Join a parenting group. Look for a group that fosters your interests and offers lots of support through activities and resources. Check the listings in your local paper or at your library, place of worship, or pediatrician's office for meeting announcements. There are groups for breastfeeding moms, moms of color, working moms, book-reading moms, stay at home parents, and so on — or you might find an ad hoc neighborhood group.
2. Go online. Keep in touch with friends or family by e-mail, network with other parents at sites like BabyCenter, or just check in on "the outside world" at news sites.
3. Spend some time by yourself. Make sure you get a real break — a chance to relax, focus on yourself, and get inspired — at least once a week. Ideally, find a half hour just for you each day, maybe at nap time.
4. Read. Keep a book or magazine handy for those times when your baby naps. Even if it's just reading a few pages a day, you can "escape" to a world of fiction or learn something new.
5. Start a blog or a diary. Whether you choose to make your observations public or keep them private is up to you — simply recording them is a way to preserve your sanity.
6. Have an adult conversation. Whether it be over the phone or in person, chatting with a friend, relative, or your partner can re-energize you, especially if you steer clear of baby-related topics.

3 questions about: Shaken Baby Syndrome

What is shaken baby syndrome?S
haken baby syndrome (SBS) occurs when someone shakes a baby severely, causing the baby's brain to move inside his skull. Babies are especially vulnerable to injury because their neck muscles aren't strong enough to support their heads. This abuse can cause serious injuries, including blindness, eye damage, developmental delays, seizures, paralysis, and brain damage. It can even be fatal.

Can it be caused by roughhousing?
In theory that's possible, but it would have to be pretty rough play. The ordinary kind of jiggling, patting, and tickling that a loving parent does when interacting with a baby doesn't cause shaken baby syndrome. Nor do swings, vibrating bouncy seats, or driving over rough roads. The kind of abuse that leads to SBS is deliberate and severe. It's usually caused by someone who loses their control when caring for a baby.

What should I do if I know or think my baby has been shaken?
A shaken baby may appear colicky, may vomit or appear to have a feeding problem, or may be irritable and fussy. If you suspect SBS and any of these signs are present, call your baby's doctor or take your baby to the emergency room immediately. Be clear and honest so that the most accurate diagnosis can be made and the best treatment given. Baby care can be taxing and frustrating. Every caregiver should learn healthy, safe ways to deal with exasperation and anger, including deep breathing, taking time-outs, or seeking support from friends, family, or your baby's doctor.

Choice of baby girl or baby boy

2007-05-19T00:24:00.000+08:00

Trying to conceive? Change to your diet now

4-Month-Old: Week 3

2007-05-16T11:21:00.000+08:00

Even though you can't understand your baby, he is beginning to be able to understand you. That's why it's important to talk to him as you move through the day. Narrate what you're doing: "Here's your bottle." "Ready for your bath?" In a few months he will understand you perfectly when you say the word "bottle" or "bath." You don't have to be a nonstop chatterbox; babies appreciate quiet, too. All you need to do is converse with him like the little companion he is.

How your baby's growing

Even though crying is still your baby's strongest form of communication, he's also developing his sense of humor now. He may start to laugh at pleasant surprises such as your face appearing from underneath a blanket or a toy popping out of a box, provided it isn't too loud or startling.

Encourage your baby's laughs, giggles, and smiles with funny faces and lots of general silliness. Babies enjoy hearing a variety of sounds and you don't need special toys or instruments to provide them. Simply click your tongue, whistle, or make animal noises — your baby will love it!• Learn more fascinating facts about your 4-month-old's development.

Even though crying is still your baby's strongest form of communication, he's also developing his sense of humor now. He may start to laugh at pleasant surprises such as your face appearing from underneath a blanket or a toy popping out of a box, provided it isn't too loud or startling.Encourage your baby's laughs, giggles, and smiles with funny faces and lots of general silliness. Babies enjoy hearing a variety of sounds and you don't need special toys or instruments to provide them. Simply click your tongue, whistle, or make animal noises — your baby will love it!

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 4-month-old's development.

Your life: Pumping breast milk
Many working moms find that they're able to continue breastfeeding by pumping while on the job. Doing so helps maintain your milk supply and provides breast milk for bottle feedings. But getting the hang of it can also be difficult or stressful, especially at first. Some tips to make pumping at work easier:

Practice at home. You might even experiment with different types of equipment to see what makes you most comfortable. (Consider renting from a hospital-supply company before buying.) Some women prefer a fully automatic pump with a double-collection kit to save time, for example. Think, too, about how you will store the expressed milk.

Let your supervisor know your plans. Many workplaces set aside a special, private place for pumping, or you may need to arrange one.

Plan to pump at the same time and place at work every day. If possible, try for every three hours. Remember to keep well hydrated in between sessions.

Relax to improve letdown. This can be the hardest part. Some moms like to hold a baby photo or something that smells like their baby to get in the right mindset. Visualizing your baby feeding or humming a favorite lullaby in your head that you sing to your baby can also help.

3 questions about: Respiratory Syncytial Virus (RSV)

What is RSV?
RSV, or respiratory syncytial virus, causes coldlike symptoms. It's not a dangerous virus in itself, but it may lead to ear infections, bronchiolitis, pneumonia, or later development of asthma or another respiratory problem. Almost every baby contracts it before age 2, but it can be especially dangerous for babies under 6 months old and premature infants, whose immune systems are less strong.

How can I tell if my baby has RSV?
Your baby may appear to have a mild cold, but then a few days later, his cough worsens and his breathing becomes labored. Signs that your baby may have a serious infection include flaring his nostrils, excessively expanding his rib cage, tightening his abdominal muscles, wheezing when breathing, quickened breathing (more than 60 breaths per minute), bluish lips or fingernails, and feeding problems.

What should I do if I think my baby has it?
Call your baby's doctor. Keep your baby well hydrated and away from smoke and fumes, which can make compromised breathing even more difficult. Try relieving his labored breathing with saline drops and a bulb syringe (to loosen and remove mucus), a cool-mist vaporizer, or some method of keeping his head elevated a little when he sleeps (such as a towel under his crib mattress, but not a pillow). Don't use any medications without your doctor's advice. Premature infants may be advised to have a series of shots that, like the flu shot, help protect against the virus.

Earning for my mother

2007-05-14T12:38:00.000+08:00

We bought one pair of earings for my mother. No doubt she always likes to say that don’t waste the money buy things for her. I can feel that she likes the earning, when I gave the gift to her, she so happy and wear it immediately.

Until now, she still wear it. So I feel that is worth than enough already 

4-Month-Old: Week 2

2007-05-14T11:17:00.000+08:00

A bigger, stronger baby is also likely to be a more wiggly one at diaper changing time. You'll want to be sure to keep one hand on her at all times during changes. Some parents like to place a musical mobile above a changing station so their baby will have something to look at. Keeping a basket filled with toys you rotate or make available only during diapering may also help her lie still long enough for you to do the job.

How your baby's growing

By now, your baby can play with her hands and feet for a few minutes at a time. She's quite fond of doing one action over and over again until she's sure of the result. Then, she'll switch things up just a bit to see if the result is different.

Suddenly you realize it's strangely quiet in the bedroom and look in, only to discover that your baby, who so far has needed your attention for most of every waking moment, is amusing herself in her crib. You might be able to start reading the paper again — well, maybe just the headlines.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 4-month-old's development.

Your life: Getting your partner involved
If you're the primary caregiver, it may feel like a reflex by now to step in whenever your baby starts crying. But it's a good idea to give your partner the chance to be the soother, too. Not only does this give you a break — which is huge! — but it adds to his confidence level and provides bonding opportunities.

There are plenty of methods you can encourage your partner to use, but it's also important to leave him room to experiment and learn on his own.

Remind your partner to assess the baby's needs (diapering, feeding, burping) and to fulfill those first. If crying continues, he can try to soothe the baby by holding him close, rubbing his back, or giving him some infant massage.

Many babies are comforted by gentle, rhythmic motion, which helps a parent feel like he's doing something. Dancing, rocking, or swinging the baby may do the trick.

Distraction is another popular method. He can try playing the entertainer with silly stunts, singing, and funny sounds and expressions.

3 questions about: Pink eye

What is pinkeye?
Pinkeye, or conjunctivitis, is an infection of the eye that can be caused by a virus, bacteria, or an allergen. The membrane covering the white of your baby's eyes and the inside of his eyelids becomes irritated. As a result, your baby's eyes may look watery, inflamed (reddish), or crusty. One or both eyes can be affected.

What should I do if I think my baby has it?
Call your baby's doctor immediately. He'll need to examine your baby's eyes and can recommend specific treatment depending on the cause. It's also important to wash your hands often, especially before and after you examine your baby's eyes to avoid spreading the infection. You can easily contract it yourself. Keep your baby home from daycare and wash all bedding, washcloths, and towels frequently.

What is the treatment for pinkeye?
If the cause is bacteria (bacterial conjunctivitis), your baby's doctor will prescribe antibiotics, usually in the form of eyedrops or ointment. If the cause is a virus (usually the case when your baby also has cold symptoms), he may recommend diligent — but gentle — cleaning of the area and waiting it out for about a week. If the cause is an allergen, he'll work with you to identify the allergen, which you'll then need to eliminate from your baby's environment as soon as possible; special eyedrops may also be recommended.Sometimes babies have a blocked tear duct that makes them vulnerable to infection. Depending on the nature of your baby's case, his doctor may suggest massage or lukewarm compresses to help unclog it. In rare cases, surgery may be needed for a duct that remains blocked for a long time.

Mother’s day

2007-05-13T21:00:00.000+08:00

Every year I only play a role of celebrating mother’s day with mother and MIL.

While this year makes a difference, my kid and hubby celebrate with me :P Although we just went to normal restaurant took our lunch. But I wish that every year they can celebrate with me. I would appreciate of it. Not so greedy, right?

But the event that impressed me so much is that all the mothers celebrate mother’s day together especially when we sing the song of

My daughter be the 4th generation of my grandmother.

4-Month-Old: Week 1

2007-05-11T11:13:00.000+08:00

Babies love to check themselves out in a mirror. In fact, faces are your baby's favorite things in the world to see at this age. Hold your baby in front of a mirror and watch his delight. He won't understand that it's his own reflection until he's about 7 or 8 months old, but he'll enjoy the view. And the motion of his hands in the mirror will capture his attention.

How your baby's growing

Researchers believe that your baby can now understand all the basic sounds that make up his native language. Between this time and 6 months of age, your baby will develop the ability to make some vocal sounds, which means you may hear the words you've been dreaming about, namely "ma-ma" or "da-da." While child development experts say it's too early for your baby to connect those sounds with you and your partner, that won't make hearing them any less exciting.

You can encourage your baby's attempts at communication by mirroring or imitating his expressions and sounds. He may try to imitate you now, too. Say "baa" and he may try to say it back.

Reacting when your baby makes noises or tries to say something will help your baby learn the importance of language. It'll also help him better understand cause and effect. It's great for his self-esteem, too. He'll begin to realize that what he says makes a difference.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 4-month-old's development.

Your life: Getting back to exercising
No new mom has ever loved the body that arrived with her baby. If you're still wearing a few leftover maternity items or dread looking in the mirror, you may decide you're ready to kick into high gear about making some changes.

Unless your doctor has told you otherwise, your body's ready to exercise. Even now, however, your joints and ligaments may still be loose from the effects of pregnancy, so go easy at first, perhaps with a low-impact exercise class.

Exercise won't affect your ability to breastfeed, but take care not to do exercises (such as certain kinds of weight training or yoga positions) that will make your breasts sore.

You can also involve your baby in your new exercise routine. Put her in a stroller or baby carrier when you go for walk, or in a baby seat or crib so she can watch you riding a stationary bike. You may want to seek out a gym that has a nursery so you can work out while your baby's being supervised close by.

Find ways to fit in exercise around your busy life. Consider workout DVDs you can use when your baby is quiet or sleeping. If you work, park a little farther from the office and squeeze in some walking, or look into a lunch-hour program at a nearby gym. If you pick something that's simple or convenient, you'll be more likely to stick with it.

Don't be too hard on yourself, though. While it's healthy to care about your body, getting in shape takes time. You'll undo all the great mental benefits of exercise if you stress too much about your appearance. Your body did an amazing thing when it created your baby — give it some credit, too!

3 questions about: Ear infections

What's an ear infection?
An ear infection — also known as acute otitis media — happens when bacteria and fluid become trapped around your baby's eardrum. An infection results that causes swelling and usually a fever.

What are the symptoms?
• Lack of hunger: Ear infections can make chewing and swallowing painful.
• Diarrhea: Ear infections are often caused by a virus that also affects the digestive system.
• Tugging and yanking at an ear (although sometimes babies do this for no reason at all).
• A sudden change in mood, particularly following a cold. Pressure in the ear can hurt, making a baby irritable.

How is an ear infection treated?
Surprisingly, they usually go away by themselves. To avoid having an infection become serious and to bring comfort to the baby, most pediatricians prescribe an antibiotic and may also recommend infant's acetaminophen.To prevent frequent ear infections:
• Keep your baby away from tobacco smoke, which can have a negative effect on the immune system.
• Continue breastfeeding if you are already doing so, as studies show that breastfed babies are less likely to have ear infections.
• Be sure your baby has had all her vaccinations, particularly Hib and the pneumococcal shots, which have been shown to reduce the incidence of ear infections.

Wedding anniversary

2007-05-07T21:00:00.000+08:00

I thought he will give me surprise on our first year wedding anniversary, like make the reservation for candle light dinner, flower....and etc...who know he didnt do any one of it :(

But luckily he still remember that is our anniversary date, didnt entertain customer:P He brought me go to Tao's there for japanese buffet dinner, and almost until the end of dinner, he suddenly brought up the gift, and told me that he designed and custom made for this gift (diamond pendent) since i gave birth to my baby, so appreciate it.

But i dare not wear this pendent again as i have lost it once, no confidence already, i will keep this for my daugther when she is grow up.

Seven principles to eating well during pregnancy

2007-05-05T00:24:00.002+08:00

http://www.babycenter.com/refcap/pregnancy/pregnancynutrition/3561.html

3-Month-Old: Week 4

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Your baby loves to reach out and touch anyone and anything he can grasp onto. With increasing coordination, he can reach for and pick up things that pique his interest. You can help him practice his grabbing skills by outfitting his crib and playpen with fascinating toys, especially ones that squeak and rattle. Spending time in an activity saucer or under a floor gym has the same effect.

How your baby's growing
When placed on her stomach, your baby will lift her head and shoulders high, using her arms for support. This mini push-up helps strengthen her muscles and gives her a better view of what's going on. She may even amaze you (and herself!) by rolling from her back to her front, or vice versa.

You can encourage this skill through play: Wiggle a toy next to the side she customarily rolls to in case she's interested enough to try again. Applaud her efforts and smile. She may need your reassurance since her new skill can be frightening.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 3-month-old's development.

Your life: Leaving your baby

Guilt isn't necessarily bad. It's an internal signal that we're concerned and caring. In fact, you wouldn't be a good parent if you didn't feel pangs of anxiety when leaving your baby with your parents or a trusted babysitter.

That being said, it's not a good idea to consistently give in to your guilt. The need to keep your baby safe with you should be weighed against other realities, such as your mental health (taking breaks from your baby is also a good thing), your need to bring in income through work, and your baby's need, over time, to be socialized with others. A babysitter can be both necessary and valuable.

If you've never hired a babysitter, ask for references from other parents you trust. Once you've found someone, ask her over and have her sit with your baby while you do household chores. That way you can occasionally observe how she interacts with your child. Limit your first trips away from the house to quick shopping trips. When you leave the house, try not to let your apprehensiveness show. If you seem nervous, your baby will pick up on that, making separation harder for both of you.

3 questions about: Chubbiness

What if my baby looks fat?
Obesity has become the health buzzword of the day. While it's unhealthy for anyone to carry too much fat, your pediatrician is unlikely to be too worried if your baby is chubby. Some babies are born plump, others grow that way — but not because they have an unhealthy diet and don't exercise. It's because they haven't developed much muscle yet. This kind of baby fat won't necessarily stay with your child as she grows.

Should she go on a diet?
No. First, your pediatrician will check to see if your baby's weight and height are within the guidelines for her age. If she's too heavy, it's likely your doctor will simply watch to see how she grows. It's pretty rare for a doctor to be too concerned at this age, especially before solids have been added to a baby's diet.

Does this mean my baby will always have weight trouble?
No. A plump baby does not foreshadow a plump teenager or adult. Many big babies slim down once they begin crawling and walking. They simply store their baby fat differently. As your baby grows, you can keep her fit and healthy by encouraging floor play. Feed her only when she's hungry, and avoid using a bottle to calm her when she's upset or stressed. Instead, offer her a toy or love and kisses.

3-Month-Old: Week 3

2007-05-03T11:08:00.000+08:00

By now your baby has gone from being a passive observer of the world around her to being — or, at least, wanting to be — an active participant. Some babies this age even like to try "standing." If your baby seems to want to stand up while being held securely on your lap, it means her leg muscles are probably sturdy enough to try this new sensation, at least briefly.

How your baby's growing

Your baby's starting to draw conclusions about the world around him. He's looking at everything with curiosity, even his own reflection.

Prop an unbreakable mirror next to him or sit him in front of your mirror when you're getting ready. Your baby won't realize that it's actually his image in the mirror (this usually begins to happen well into the second year), but that doesn't matter. He'll love to stare at his — or anyone else's — reflection, and he may show his delight by an all-out gum grin.

•Learn more fascinating facts about your 3-month-old's development.

Your life: Changing friendships
Having a new baby brings changes in your relationships with everyone — and that includes your friendships. Sometimes old friends who have no children are as delighted by your baby as you are, and aside from a few accommodations to your schedule, things continue as they once did. But others may not be as excited about your new phase of life. Some may be envious, others bored, and still others may simply have no interest in children. You can't blame your friends entirely. You're changing, too. Interests you once shared with certain people — skydiving, nightclubbing, shopping for shoes 'til you dropped — may no longer mesh with your new lifestyle.

Although you can't expect everything to stay exactly the same, it helps to try to strike a balance between your old way of being together and your new situation. Your friend can't expect you to abandon all thoughts of your baby, and you can't expect her to want to talk only about motherhood. Look for common ground in your activities and time together. It's great if you can sometimes go out to lunch, just the two of you, and other times have her come to your house to visit with the baby, for example.

The short of it, though, is to expect a certain amount of change in your friendships. You may drift apart from some pals, but at the same time your baby will bring you into the orbit of new friends. Through playgroups, mom support networks, and chance encounters, you and your partner will meet other new parents with whom you have a lot in common.

3 questions about: Thrush

What is it?
Thrush is an infection in your baby's mouth, caused by the fungus Candida albicans. If you see white spots on the inside of his lips and cheeks that don't easily wipe away (like spit up does), they could be thrush.The fungus grows in moist, warm, sugary environments — just like the inside of your baby's mouth. If you're breastfeeding, your nipples can become infected when your baby latches on. Thrush can then cause nipples to be dry, sore, and painful during feedings. Thrush can also cause a vaginal yeast infection. You're more vulnerable if you're stressed and your resistance is low.

What can be done about it?
See your doctor or healthcare provider. She'll likely prescribe an antifungal medication for both you and your baby. It's important that you both are treated so that you don't continue to reinfect each other. It will probably take several weeks for the condition to go away once treatment has begun.During treatment, be sure to wash your hands frequently. Also wash all your baby's toys and pacifiers in boiling water. Applying an over-the-counter antifungal cream such as Lotrimin AF on your nipples can help you, as can ibuprofen.

How does thrush affect my baby?
While it's annoying to you, your baby may show no ill effects at all. Some babies with thrush are more irritable and less interested in feeding, however, due to soreness in their cheeks and gums.

3-Month-Old: Week 2

2007-05-02T11:03:00.000+08:00

Your baby's goos and gurgles are probably going strong, but now she's also making consonant sounds, sputtering p's and b's and m's and l's. That's where the first "ma ma" and "da da" come from. At first, she doesn't associate these sounds with any particular meaning (though you certainly will) — they're just easiest for her to make. (Interesting fact: "Mama" and "Dada" and their variations are common first words in any language.) But the big response you give her to these "words" encourages her to repeat them.

She also knows how to use her voice to get your attention. It's more important than ever to continue having conversations with your baby. When she babbles a string of p-p-p-p's, imitate those sounds back to her. Also use lots of real language. Call her by name when you're talking to her. Sing to her, too. Babies love to be cuddled and held close when their parents sing softly to them. (Don't know any lullabies? Your favorite rock tunes or holiday songs will do just fine.)

How your baby's growing
Babies simply love to be touched. In fact, they thrive on it — it's a critical part of growth and development. All that skin-to-skin contact not only helps you and your baby bond, but is comforting when she's upset and soothing when she's irritable.

Nurture your baby's sense of touch with a variety of materials — such as fake fur, felt, and terrycloth. Your baby will likely try to eat everything, so choose carefully and don't leave her alone with anything that could come apart in her mouth. And look for books like Pat the Bunny that make reading a tactile experience.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 3-month-old's development.

Your life: Making peace with your post-baby body

If ever there were a time in your life for realism, it's now. Remember that childbirth is a life- and body-changing experience: Your hips and waist may now be slightly wider and your belly may be softer. Give yourself at least the nine months it took to grow your baby to return to your pre-pregnancy shape. Many women find that they simply can't return to their pre-pregnancy weight. As long as your weight is in a healthy range, this is perfectly okay.

If you're breastfeeding, it's particularly important not to go on a highly restrictive diet. Instead of focusing on rapid weight loss through a diet or exercise program that may be impossible to live with the rest of your life, think more carefully about what you eat and how you eat. Here are some guidelines:

Take smaller portions, and eat each bite more slowly. You'll find that you can feel satisfied with less. Stop before you feel filled up or bloated.

Drink water. Carry around ice water in an athletic bottle and sip it throughout the day. Not only is it smart to stay hydrated if you're nursing, downing liquids also fills your stomach and curbs hunger pangs. Herbal tea, decaf coffee, flavored or vitamin water, or low-calorie sodas are also okay in moderation.

Eat more "good" calories, fewer "bad" ones. Don't abandon the emphasis on nutrition that you developed while you were pregnant.

Snack smart. Keep low-calorie munchables around, such as popcorn (unbuttered), fruits, and raw vegetables.

Start exercising again. Remember to start slowly and ease back into your pre-pregnancy workout routine.

3 questions about: Missed immunizations

What if my baby doesn't get shots when she should?
If your baby has missed a shot in a series (such as the DTaP vaccine) because of illness or another reason, don't worry. Your doctor will continue to administer the series by picking up where you left off, usually at the next well-child checkup. (The doctor's office keeps careful records, but it's also a good idea for you to do the same.) Be sure to remind your doctor of any missed shots.

Are there times when my baby shouldn't get a shot?
Yes. Get your doctor's advice in the following circumstances:
• If your baby has a fever.
• If your baby has an immune disorder or deficiency or takes medicine that interferes with her immune system.
• If your baby has epilepsy.
• If your baby has had nonfebrile convulsions.
• If your child had a severe reaction to a prior DTaP shot, such as a temperature of 105 degrees Fahrenheit (40.5 degrees Celsius) or higher, convulsions, or inconsolable crying.

What if my baby was born prematurely?
Premature babies should follow the same schedule for immunizations as full-term infants, unless your doctor suggests otherwise.

At the moment....

2007-05-01T15:13:00.000+08:00

Sunday morning, after bathing with Cindy, think of capture her new cloth, plus she is in the good mood.

I quickly take out the camera, snap shot of her few post below.

Eye problem caused due to long hour in front of a computer

2007-05-01T14:05:00.000+08:00

This will save your eyes, as life is not worth living without the eyes.During a recent visit to an optician, one of my friends was told of anexercise for the eyes by a specialist doctor in the US that he termed as20-20-20."

It is apt for all of us, who spend long hours at our desks, looking atthe computer screen.

It helps you prevent eye problems caused due to long hours in front of acomputer screen.

Step I:After every 20 minutes of looking into the computer screen, turn yourhead and try to look at any object placed at least 20 feet away. Thischanges the focal length of your eyes, a must-do for the tired eyes.

Step II:Try and blink your eyes for 20 times in succession, to moisten them.

Step III:Time permitting of course, one should walk 20 paces after every 20minutes of sitting in one particular posture. Helps blood Circulationfor the entire body.

3-Month-Old: Week 1

2007-04-30T10:59:00.000+08:00

You've been rocking — get ready for rolling. Between now and your baby's sixth month, he'll learn how to roll over. Active infants who love to stiffen and arch their backs are likely to roll over sooner than mellow babies, who are more content to lie on their backs and enjoy visual pleasures all around.

Both types of babies will probably practice getting ready for this big rollover move by wiggling from side to side on their tummies. That's why it's a good idea to make sure your baby has plenty of "floor time" — opportunity to lie on the floor (or on a blanket on the floor or ground) to stretch out and play with you. He can't practice rolling if he's in his car seat, swing, bouncer, or sling all day long. You'll likely see your baby start a "mini-pushup" and then kick himself over onto his back. Eventually he'll be able to flip over onto his tummy again too.

Your baby is also probably able to sit upright when propped by blankets or pillows. If he can do this for short periods without slumping forward or immediately toppling to the side, by all means let him enjoy the new views that come with sitting upright in a stroller or next to you on the sofa. (Take care not to leave a propped infant unattended. Even a seemingly stable pre-sitter can topple over.)

How your baby's growing

Even though your baby has been able to recognize you since he was just a few days old, he may now be able to show it. About half of babies this age begin to exhibit an obvious recognition of their parents.

Most likely he'll still smile at strangers, especially when they look him straight in the eye and coo or talk to him. But he's beginning to sort out who's who in his life, and he definitely prefers you, your partner, and a select few over others.

Your baby may quiet down and make eye contact with you, or he may search for you in a room and move his arms in excitement or smile when he finds you. He may even find your scent calming and comforting.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 3-month-old's development.

Your life: When the baby blues don't pass

Do you feel anxious and moody a lot but chalk it up to new-mom nerves? Has your partner or a friend wondered if your "baby blues" may be more serious as the weeks have gone on? Don't let embarrassment or pride keep you from talking with your doctor. As many as 10 to 20 percent of new mothers develop postpartum depression, which can last from two weeks to as long as a year. It's a real and treatable illness.

So if you're still not feeling like yourself three months after giving birth, ask yourself the following questions, which were developed by the Postpartum Stress Center: Do you...
• have trouble sleeping?
• find you're exhausted most of the time?
• notice a decrease in your appetite?
• worry about little things that never used to bother you?
• wonder if you'll ever have time to yourself again?
• think your children would be better off without you?
• worry your husband will get tired of you feeling this way?
• snap at your husband and children over everything?
• think everyone else is a better mother than you are?
• cry over the slightest thing?
• no longer enjoy the things you used to enjoy?
• isolate yourself from your friends and neighbors?
• fear leaving the house or being alone?
• have anxiety attacks?
• have unexplained anger?
• have difficulty concentrating?
• think something else is wrong with you or your marriage?
• feel like you'll always feel this way and never get better?If you answered yes to three or more questions, seek advice and treatment.

3 questions about: Diaper rash

What causes it?
The telltale reddish rough skin of diaper rash is usually caused by wetness and chafing. Urine or stool trapped for long periods in the area cause irritation and the growth of bacteria. Sometimes a skin infection (dermatitis) can result. Less often, the diaper itself or its fragrance may cause the irritation (try changing brands to see if that solves the problem).

How can I make it go away?
Dryness is the surest cure for garden-variety diaper rash. Change your baby's diaper frequently — don't let her linger in a dirty or wet one. Wipe the area thoroughly and allow it to air-dry a little. One idea: Let your baby play bare-bottomed for a while in a crib or playpen you've protected with plastic sheeting.Some moms swear by rubbing diapering ointment on the affected skin to create a barrier between the baby and waste products whose bacteria cause the irritation and infection. Creams that contain white zinc oxide are thicker than petroleum jelly, stay on the skin longer, and provide more protection. In cases of severe rash, you can also use an over-the-counter yeast cream, but it's a good idea to check with your doctor first.

How can I prevent diaper rash?
Keeping your baby dry and clean is the surest way to avoid diaper rash. Change him often and clean the genitals thoroughly. In hot weather, you might try applying a little cornstarch after wiping, to help dry the area.Make sure diapers aren't too tight. Leave room for air to circulate around your baby's bottom.If you're breastfeeding, continue as long as you can, as breast milk changes the pH of your baby's urine and stool, making it less likely that they'll cause diaper rash.

2-Month-Old: Week 4

2007-04-27T10:53:00.000+08:00

Your baby is becoming very handy. Although she's already aware of her hands, she's now inspecting them like Sherlock Holmes. She turns them around, the better to look at her fingers from all sides. She opens and shuts her fist, watching each finger as it moves up and down. It's almost as though she's using her hand like a puppet and putting on a private show. To help your baby develop her blossoming hand-eye coordination, try dangling a toy just out of reach so she has to grab for it.

Your baby will also place a finger or as much of her whole hand as possible into her mouth. That's another way she's learning about her hand — its textures, how big it is, and what it tastes like. The hand is, well, handy for exploring this way because it's right there in front of your baby and never gets lost. But eventually, you'll find she's discovering all sorts of things around her as she puts them into her mouth. This is an important way for babies to gather information about their world (and a time for you to make sure yours can't put anything into her mouth that will cause her to choke).

How your baby's growing

Reading to your baby, even at this young age, will pay off. Hearing you read helps your baby develop an ear for the cadence of language. Varying the pitch of your voice, using accents, and singing will make the connection between you and your baby that much more interesting.

If she looks the other way or loses interest while you're reading, just try something else or give her time to rest. Take your cue from her responses.

You'll find plenty of good books to read to your baby — such as Goodnight Moon, Good Night Gorilla, and The Big Red Barn. Choose board books that have large, bright pictures and simple text — or even wordless books that have pictures for you to narrate. At this point you needn't be slavish to age guidelines. Books designed for older children can captivate a baby if they have clear, crisp images and bright colors.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 2-month-old's development.

Your life: Handling unwanted advice

When you have a baby, everyone in the world seems to have an opinion about it: "Shouldn't she be wearing a sweater?" "He won't grow big and strong if you don't feed him solids now." "If you let her suck on a pacifier, she'll ruin her teeth!" Whether the advice is right or wrong, it's the sheer intrusiveness of it all that can irk a mom.

How to deal with it?
First and foremost, don't take everything you hear seriously. There's no quicker way to undermine your confidence than to listen to every shred of information you're offered by friends, relatives, and strangers. Do what you think is best.

Realize the advice is mostly well intentioned. People are drawn to babies. Sometimes they make "helpful" comments simply to have something to say. In response, say something noncommittal like, "Thanks for your concern." Or, "I'll think about it." A great way to handle grandparents who have their own ideas about feeding or sleep is to enlist a third party: "Thanks, Mom. I'll see what my doctor says."

3 questions about: Colds

How did my baby catch a cold?
It's practically a given that your baby will catch a cold during his first year — the numerous viruses that cause colds are nearly impossible to avoid. They're spread through airborne droplets and by contaminated hands and objects, such as doorknobs and toys. Your baby can't fight them off as easily as you because his immune system is less developed than yours.On top of this, your baby is constantly putting his fingers near his eyes and in his mouth, giving any viruses lurking on his hands easy passage into his body where they can set up camp. If your baby is in group daycare or has older siblings, he's even more likely to come into contact with cold germs.

How can I make my baby more comfortable?
Suction stuffy nostrils with a rubber bulb syringe, and use a cool-mist vaporizer or humidifier in the room where he sleeps. These steps help keep his mucus thin and moving so he can breathe more easily.Raise the head of your baby's mattress by a few inches, if possible, to ease his postnasal drip. Never use pillows for this purpose, though. If his crib mattress won't raise, try putting him to sleep in his car seat in an upright position.Don't give your baby any over-the-counter cold remedies. Pediatricians typically do not recommend them for children under 6 months of age because it's unclear whether they help, and their risk of side effects may be high.

When should I call the doctor?
Play it safe and call the doctor if your baby:
• has a fever above 100.4 degrees Fahrenheit (38 degrees Celsius) taken rectally;
• exhibits labored or rapid breathing (more than 60 breaths a minute), has a worsening cough, or is wheezing or gasping;
• has a discharge from his eyes, which may signal conjunctivitis (pinkeye) or an ear infection;
• tugs at his ear or cries when sucking during a feeding, which also suggest an ear infection; or
• seems to get sicker after five to seven days or has ongoing symptoms for more than two weeks.

Taking Pills with warm water is DANGEROUS

2007-04-26T16:33:00.000+08:00

In our mindset, we already had the concept of taking pills must drink the warm water as cool water will cause wind, that's what old people tell us since we are young. However, we never know that drinking warm water will lead to dangerous until this moment. Be careful....

How to be a better couple

2007-04-23T14:00:00.000+08:00

1. Be realistic about each other.
Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.

2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.

3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do t hings together. Do some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road . Watch soccor with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!

4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock" print, u shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy... There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway.

5.Show ur loveBuy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have been together for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes => ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.

6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.

7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b'cos u are gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.

8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u're gonna go through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finall y killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it.

9. Keep ur commitments to each other.
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur partner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's really terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises u can't keep. If ur partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to u, u may jus lose him/her.

10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing <>ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When u're hurt, say so, and when u're angry, tell him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If u can't be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with? æ Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probably isn't worth it!

Baby first turning

2007-04-18T09:52:00.000+08:00

Cindy can turn already exactly on her 4th month Chinese lunar birthday, my MIL follow the Chinese culture let her eat the pong pia biscuit, pray the Guan Ying.

After that, as usual, send her to baby sitter house. Around 11 something, aunty called to my office phone told me that Cindy can turn already lor..so surprise…:P is it because of praying or coincidentally? I still in a doubt of it. No matter how, I hope she can grow it faster, and healthy.

2-Month-Old: Week 3

2007-04-12T10:48:00.000+08:00

Your baby is an excellent listener. He recognizes your voice, and he'll show you his pleasure by smiling at the sound of your greetings. You may notice that your baby seems to freeze when he hears a new sound — and it's only after he can figure out where it came from that he starts kicking or moving his arms again.

He's also excitedly using all five of his senses to learn about his world. You can actually see how hard he's working to assimilate the new information he's exposed to every day. If something grabs his attention, notice how hard he focuses on it and stares. He's taking it in on many levels.

More things that fascinate your baby now: the contrasting colors of a new toy, the motion of a ceiling fan or rustling tree leaves, the sound of running water, and the clattering of pots in the kitchen sink.

How your baby's growing

He's no Fred Astaire yet, but your little one's movements are getting a bit more coordinated. You'll notice that the jerky arm and leg movements of his newborn days have given way to smoother, more circular motions, especially when he's watching people.

Give your baby enough space to stretch and move his arms and legs. Lay a blanket on the floor and let him move as he pleases. These movements can help your baby strengthen and tone his developing muscles. On his tummy, he'll start to push off with his legs — the first step in getting on the move.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 2-month-old's development

Your life: Don't forget birth control!

Quick: If you're breastfeeding, can you get pregnant? What if you haven't had a period yet since giving birth?

The answers are yes and yes. Even if you're only sexually semiactive, it's possible to conceive. Contrary to folk wisdom, breastfeeding itself is not a contraceptive, and you'll begin to ovulate before you have a period, but you can't be sure when that will be. So it's wise to use contraception unless you wouldn't mind giving your newborn a closely spaced sibling.

Your doctor can map out all the options, but here are some considerations:

What did you use before you got pregnant?
You can't necessarily pick up where you left off. If you used a diaphragm before you got pregnant, be sure to have it refitted, as your body may have changed due to childbirth.If you were on a hormonal form of birth control (the pill, patch, or ring) before becoming pregnant and are breastfeeding, you won't want to resume taking it, because the hormones can affect the quality and quantity of breast milk. Nursing moms need a different formulation, such as the progesterone-only minipill.

Do you want to try something new?
An IUD (intrauterine device), for example, fits better in women who have given birth than in those who've never had children.

Have you considered using condoms?
Condoms can be a good choice for nursing moms because they don't interfere with breast milk.

3 questions about: Fever

How do I decide if symptoms should be mentioned to my baby's doctor?
You should feel comfortable calling the doctor's office anytime a gut feeling tells you to, day or night. Symptoms worth reporting in a young baby include worrisome changes in her temperament, changes in appetite or an inability to keep food down,high fever (see below), abnormally loose bowel movements, a persistent rash, eye or ear drainage, and prolonged, unusual crying. Any of these could signal a serious illness, depending on their severity, duration, and accompanying symptoms. Always get immediate medical attention if your baby has trouble breathing or is having seizures.

When should I call a doctor about a fever?
It's your decision. Your baby's overall behavior and the presence of additional symptoms is usually a better indicator of illness than an exact thermometer reading. Remember that fever is your baby's way of fighting infection, so it's essentially a good thing, not an illness in itself. Body temperature also varies by time of day (lower in early morning, higher in late afternoon or evening). The American Academy of Pediatrics considers a fever to be a reading over 100.4 degrees Fahrenheit (38 degrees Celsius). Because readings can vary depending on how you took the temperature (rectally, by ear, under the armpit), tell your doctor the method you used when you report a fever.

What information should I be prepared to give?
When you need to call the doctor, stay calm and provide as thorough a description of the symptoms as you can. Tell when they began, how long they have lasted, and if anything unusual was taking place (such as teething or travel). Take your baby's temperature before you call. Also mention if your baby is currently on any medications and remind the nurse or doctor you speak with if your baby has a medical condition. Because medical staff sees many children each day, they may not remember your individual child's history right off the bat.

Every Sunday declared as bra free

2007-04-11T11:30:00.000+08:00

Do you wear bra for the whole day and even at home? - You should read this article.

Do you wear bra for the whole day and even at home? I think we should go bra-free after reading this article. It's a message for your health. Please pass this to all female friends you know. I think it's important to be aware of the following facts...

For years, a lot of articles with regards to the causes of breast cancer point to an unhealthy diet and lack of exercise as the major links to this disease which happens to be the biggest killer among women during these last two decades.

These studies would have been most credible if it were not for the fact that several women including Linda McCartney who have been religious vegetarians and exercise- freaks have also been unfortunate in suffering breast cancer.

Perhaps the most convincing article I have ever read with regards to this matter is one which links breast cancer to the wearing of bras. In the "Bra and Breast Cancer Study" in the United States , It was discovered that women with breast cancer had a history of sporting tighter and longer bra-wearing than did the women who had not (yet) developed the disease.

In fact, virtually the entire cancer group wore bras over 12 hours. When a woman wears a tight bra, she subjects her breasts to pressure, closing off the lymphatic pathway from the breast to the nodes. This causes fluid built-up swelling, tenderness and cyst formation. Toxins must be flushed out via the lymphatic. However, a bra-constricted breast cannot adequately perform this cleansing process, resulting in toxin accumulation in the breast.

Truthfully, bras are creating droopy, weak breasts....the breast relies on the bras for artificial support; the body loses its ability to support the breast by itself. This is why many women feel uncomfortable without the bra.

What is the solution to breast cancer then? DON'T WEAR A TIGHT BRA! And maybe sleep without them.

There is a remarkable success rate for recovery from fibrocystic breast disease within 10 days to two weeks of going bra-free. Many women have tried going bra-less and recorded
a miraculous improvement in their health! Bra burning is no longer a feminist issue....It is now a battle between life and death. We should make others more aware of the hazards of wearing them......

To create awareness Malaysian Women welfare organi zation declare as Sundays as Bra free day at Malaysia .
. Please pass this to every female you know.

4 THINGS YOU NEVER KNEW YOUR CELLPHONE COULD DO

2007-04-09T17:22:00.000+08:00

THINGS YOU NEVER KNEW YOUR CELLPHONE COULD DO ...

There are a few things that can be done in times of grave emergencies. Your mobile phone can actually be a life saver or an emergency tool for survival. Check out the things that you can do with it:

*1* * The Emergency Number worldwide for **Mobile** is 112 ..* If you find yourself out of coverage area of your mobile network and there is an emergency, dial 112 and the mobile will search any existing network to establish the emergency number for you, and interestingly this number 112 can be dialed even if the keypad is locked. **Try it out.**

*2*
* Subject: Have you locked your keys in the car? Does you car have remote keys?*
This may come in handy someday. Good reason to own a cell phone: If you lock your keys in the car and the spare keys are at home, call someone at home on their cell phone from your cell phone. Hold your cell phone about a foot from your car door and have the person at your home press the unlock button, holding it near the mobile phone on their end. Your car will unlock. Saves someone from having to drive your keys to you. Distance is no object. You could be hundreds of miles away, and if you can reach someone who has the other "remote" for your car, you can unlock the doors (or the trunk). Editor's Note: *It works fine! We tried it out and it unlocked our car over a cell phone!"*

*3*
Subject: Hidden Battery power
Imagine your cell battery is very low, you are expecting an important call and you don't have a charger. Nokia instrument comes with a reserve battery. To activate, press the keys *3370# Your cell will restart with this reserve and the instrument will show a 50% increase in battery. This reserve will get charged when you charge your cell next time. AND

*4*
How to disable a STOLEN mobile phone?
To check your Mobile phone's serial number, key in the following digits on your phone:
* # 0 6 #
A 15 digit code will appear on the screen. This number is unique to your handset. Write it down and keep it somewhere safe. when your phone get stolen, you can phone your service provider and give them this code. They will then be able to block your handset so even if the thief changes the SIM card, your phone will be totally useless.
You probably won't get your phone back, but at least you know that whoever stole it can't use/sell it either. If everybody does this, there would be no point in people stealing mobile phones.

Microsoft Outlook* keyboard shortcuts can make you move through your mail faster

2007-04-03T15:24:00.000+08:00

Shortcuts for basic navigation
The keyboard shortcuts in this section help you move around Outlook
faster. These shortcuts take you from one part of Outlook to another and
work regardless of where you are in the application.

To do this, Press
Switch to Mail CTRL+1
Switch to Calendar CTRL+2
Switch to Contacts CTRL+3
Switch to Tasks CTRL+4
Switch to Notes CTRL+5
Next item (with item open) CTRL+COMMA
Previous item (with item open) CTRL+PERIOD
Switch between the Folder List and the main Outlook window F6 or CTRL+SHIFT+TAB
Move among the Outlook window, the Navigation Pane, and the Reading Pane TAB
Go to a different folder CTRL+Y

Shortcuts for general work in Outlook
The shortcuts in this section cover most of the day-to-day tasks you do
in Outlook. The six that we have highlighted can really speed you up as you process e-mails.
To do this, Press
Save CTRL+S or SHIFT+F12
Save and Close, Send ALT+S
Save As F12
Undo CTRL+Z or ALT+BACKSPACE
Delete CTRL+D
Print CTRL+P
Copy item CTRL+SHIFT+Y
Move item CTRL+SHIFT+V
Check names CTRL+K (using the Outlook e-mail editor)
Check spelling F7
Flag for follow-up CTRL+SHIFT+G
Forward CTRL+F
Send/post/invite all ALT+S
Find items F3 or CTRL+E
Search for text in items F4
Use Advanced Find CTRL+SHIFT+F
Accept meeting invite ALT+C
Decline meeting invite ALT+D

Shortcuts for creating a new item or file
These shortcuts are best used when you want to create something in new
like a mail message, calendar item and the like. They work regardless of
where you are in Outlook.
To do this, Press
Appointment CTRL+SHIFT+A
Contact CTRL+SHIFT+C
Distribution list CTRL+SHIFT+L
Meeting request CTRL+SHIFT+Q
Message CTRL+SHIFT+M
Search Folder CTRL+SHIFT+P
Task CTRL+SHIFT+K
Task request CTRL+SHIFT+U

Shortcuts for working in e-mail
These shortcuts are designed for use as you process e-mail messages.
To do this, Press
Switch to Inbox CTRL+SHIFT+I
Switch to Outbox CTRL+SHIFT+O
Send ALT+S
Reply to a message CTRL+R
Reply all to a message CTRL+SHIFT+R
Mark a message as not junk CTRL+ ALT+J
Display blocked external content (in a message) CTRL+SHIFT+I
Post to a folder CTRL+ SHIFT+S
Check for new mail CTRL+M or F9
Go to the next message UP ARROW
Go to the previous message DOWN ARROW
Go to the row above (message or group heading) ALT+ UP ARROW
Go to the row below (message or group heading) ALT+ DOWN ARROW
Compose a new message CTRL+N
Open a received message CTRL+O
Display the Address Book CTRL+SHIFT+B
Convert an HTML or RTF message to plain text CTRL+SHIFT+O
Add a Quick Flag to a message INSERT
Display the Flag for Follow Up dialog box CTRL+SHIFT+G
Mark message as read CTRL+Q
Mark message as Unread CTRL+U

First toys

2007-04-01T14:57:00.000+08:00

We bought for our baby first toy - Play Gym. At first, she dont know how to play for it. Just stared at it for a few minutes.

We teach her, accompany her play for a while, let her get familiar with it.

Look...so fast she get used to it.....i believe she is very enjoy to play it :)

2-Month-Old: Week 1

2007-03-27T10:37:00.000+08:00

Now that he's hit the 2-month mark, your baby is becoming an increasingly agreeable companion when he's happy. No longer do his built-in newborn reflexes govern his movements: He's learning to control his body and mind. He listens for new and different sounds. He looks around the room for interesting things to see. He focuses intently — though briefly — on whatever grabs his attention. Most of all, he really enjoys looking at his hands, mashing them together, and stuffing them in his mouth.

Coos are his way of expressing delight, as well as exercising his vocal cords. You can carry on a "conversation" with your baby now. When he gurgles or coos, say something brief or coo back at him. Then wait for him to "say" something back to you. This kind of conversational turn-taking may not sound like much to you now, but it's actually the beginning of learning how to talk!

How your baby's growing
Your baby can differentiate familiar voices from other sounds and is becoming a better listener. He also can show you that he's in tune with his environment. Notice how he looks to see where certain noises are coming from.

An ongoing conversation (although still one-sided!) can help your baby develop his sense of place. He may even watch your mouth as you talk, fascinated by how it all works.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 2-month-old's development

Your life: Loving your partner
Very few parents feel amorous in the weeks following childbirth, for very practical reasons. It's important to remember, however, that being a new parent doesn't mean that you're no longer a sexual being. Even if you don't have time, stamina, or interest in having sexual intercourse, you and your partner can still find ways to love each other.

Love through talk. Keep the lines of communication open no matter how stressed you feel. Remember that you're both going through huge changes. Talking about them can help you feel closer. Frame complaints so that they don't sound accusatory: Instead of saying, "You shouldn't do ___," for example, try, "I feel like ___ when you do ___."
Love through laughter. When your life has turned upside down and you're so tired you could be mistaken for a zombie, it's as appropriate to laugh about it as to cry. Poke fun at your own foibles together.
Love through escape. Go out on a date to see a movie while leaving the baby in the care of a trusted relative or sitter. Even being away for a couple of hours can recharge you.
Love through touching. Sex isn't all about intercourse. Kissing, cuddling, caressing, and other kinds of sex play don't require lots of energy and can help you relax.
Love through time. Remember these topsy-turvy weeks are temporary.

3 questions about: The 2-month exam

What will the doctor be looking for?
She'll weigh and measure your baby to be sure she's growing at the proper rate. Your baby's vision and hearing will be checked, and the doctor will examine her for common health issues at this age, including diaper rash, baby acne, and cradle cap. This is also a great time to bring up questions you have about breastfeeding, returning to work, or any health and behavior concerns you have.

What vaccines will be given?
Your baby will probably be vaccinated against hepatitis B; polio; diphtheria, tetanus, and pertussis (the DTaP vaccine); and meningitis (the Hib vaccine). The pneumococcal vaccine is given to protect against severe bacterial infections, ear infections, and meningitis.

What questions will the doctor ask?
Most likely she'll ask you:
• How is your baby sleeping?
• What are her bowel movements like?
• Is your baby smiling?
• How often, how much, and when does she eat?
• How does your baby respond when you talk to her?

Real people. Real questions. Real answers

2007-03-26T14:57:00.000+08:00

I don't need a CAR , but I want a BMW

I don't need a CONDO, but I want a BUNGALOW

I don't need you to have CASH but I want you to own a BANK

I don't need you to have a CAREER but I want you to be a BOSS

It's interesting for you to read!

Most of you would have heard of the Singapore 5C's ! : Car, Condo, Credit Card(Gold), Cash and Career Well.....here is something to link the 5cs to the newer 5 bs !

Heard of the 5B's?
B - BMW
B - Body
B - Brain
B - Billionaire
B - Bungalow

And, and addition with the 5K's ..............
Kiasu (scared of losing)
Kiasee (scared of dying)
Kiabor (scared of wife)
Kiaboh (scared of having nothing)
Kiachenghu (scared of government)

We've been reading about the 5C's! and 5K's for Singaporeans, now comes the 5 Numerals and Malaysia 's equivalent ...
Singapore's "practice" for Simple Living :
1 - One Wife
2 - Two Children
3 - Three Bedroom Condo
4 - Four Wheels
5 - Five Figure Salary

Malaysia 's "practice" to Simple Living:
5 - Five Children
4 - Four Wives
3 - Three Figure Salary
2 - Two Wheels
1 - One-Storey Link House

-Month-Old: Week 2

2007-03-23T10:45:00.000+08:00

Your baby is growing stronger every day. She may now be able to lift her head, chest, and shoulders off the ground when she's on her tummy. Your Superbaby will look so proud and happy while she's "flying" this way. If she's especially strong, she may be able to push herself up using her arms while lying on her stomach.

Help your baby exercise this skill by holding a toy in front of her and teasing her with it a little when she's lying on her tummy. Although she won't be able to reach it or move toward it, she will want to raise herself to look at it. Your baby won't actually crawl until at least 6 months, but these precrawling motions are her way of developing her muscles so that she grows stronger. She'll be able to scoot and roll before she actually crawls. Remember that it's important to give your baby opportunities to lie on her tummy this way. So be sure to take her out of her crib, bouncy seat, or soft carrier for regular "play" periods when she's alert and happy.

How your baby's growing
If your baby's sleeping through the night (five or six hours at a stretch), you're one of the lucky few. Most 10-week-old babies still wake up in the middle of the night. But even babies who aren't sleeping through the night at this stage should be sleeping and staying awake for longer intervals instead of cycling back and forth so much. Your baby will most likely have two to four long sleep periods and as many as ten hours of awake time in 24 hours.

An interesting note: Whether your baby is a night owl or a morning lark, a long sleeper or short sleeper, she'll probably stay that way throughout childhood.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 2-month-old's development.

Your life: Finding good childcare
Even if you're already certain about what kind of childcare arrangement you prefer, it can be a good idea to get a sense of your full range of options. You may be surprised by what appeals most to you once you've done this.

When looking for a daycare center or home daycare that's right for your baby, ask other parents for advice and shop around. Visit as many places as you can, and try to spend as much time as possible at each one at various times of the day, talking with the employees, directors, and parents to get a sense of what the different daycares are like. If you're looking for an individual provider, get references from others and follow up on them. Take time to interview several providers on-site, and watch them interact with your child as well.
A relative's care. Leaving your child in the care of a relative, whether at your home or theirs, can be inexpensive (or free) and erase worries about whether your child will receive enough safety and love. But not every grandparent or other relative has the temperament required for full-time care, and you need to hammer out issues such as discipline and routines.
A nanny's care. An experienced nanny can provide one-on-one loving care in a setting familiar to your child. However, hiring a full-time nanny can be very expensive, making this option unrealistic for the majority of parents. Continuity of care can be a problem if your nanny suddenly quits.
Daycare centers. These offer your baby a structured environment and are often staffed by employees who are trained in early childhood education. Look for a center that has been accredited by the National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC), whose guidelines tend to be more demanding than state regulations in terms of caregiver to child ratios and educational requirements.
Home-based care. These operations can range from just a few children to as many as at a small daycare center. They appeal to many parents simply because of the mother-run home setting. And though they may be less expensive, they may also have fewer regulations than a commercial daycare center, so be sure to ask for and check references.

3 questions about: Reflux

What is reflux?
It's normal for all babies to spit up a little milk after some feedings. However, if your baby is burping up milk throughout the day or vomits more than twice a day, it could be gastroesophageal reflux disease. Reflux may also be associated with prolonged crankiness and, in severe cases, gagging and coughing. Mention reflux symptoms to your pediatrician if you notice them.

What causes it?
The main problem is a weak esophageal sphincter — the valve that connects the throat to the stomach. Swallowing too much air and overfeeding can also be causes.

How is reflux treated?
In most cases, babies grow out of the problem by their first birthday without treatment, as their sphincter muscles grow stronger. If your baby is being formula fed, her doctor may suggest changing her formula or the amount you feed her. Holding her in a semivertical position after feedings will help keep the milk from coming back up. Your doctor might also prescribe an antacid (but don't give your baby one without a doctor's order). He may even suggest an endoscope of the baby's upper gastrointestinal tract. That means a tube will be inserted into the baby's throat to view and biopsy the area.

How can I tell why my baby is crying?

2007-03-21T10:30:00.000+08:00

Babies cry. There's no way to avoid it — it's one way they communicate. Since your baby can't flat out tell you, you may worry, "How will I know what she wants?" It can be difficult at first, but a large part of parenting is trial and error and you'll soon learn to anticipate her needs, read her cues, and wipe away her tears. Here are the most common reasons babies cry.

She's hungry

Once you learn to recognize the signs that your baby wants to eat — she'll fuss, make noises, and root around for your breast if you pick her up — you'll get pretty good at feeding her before she starts to really cry. Until then, checking to see if she's hungry is a good first step when your baby cries. Food might not stop her crying right away, but let her keep eating if she wants to. She'll stop once her stomach is full.

She needs a fresh diaper

Some babies let you know right away when they need to be changed. Others don't mind when their diapers are soiled — it's warm and comfortable to them. (Parents are often surprised when they pick up their infant and find she's been sitting in a dirty diaper and never made a sound.) Either way, this one is easy to check and simple to remedy.

She's too cold or hot

Newborns like to be bundled up and kept warm. (As a rule, they need to be wearing one more layer than you need to be comfortable.) So when your baby feels cold, like when you remove her clothes to change her, she'll express her discomfort by crying. You'll learn how to quickly change a diaper and wrap your baby back up. Be careful that you don't overdress her, since she's less likely to complain about being too warm than about being too cold and won't cry about it as vigorously.

She wants to be held

Babies need a lot of cuddling. They like to see their parents' faces, hear their voices, and listen to their heartbeats, and can even detect their unique smell (especially Mom's milk). After being fed, burped, and changed, many babies simply want to be held. You may wonder if you'll "spoil" your child by holding her so much, but during the first few months of life that isn't possible. Infants vary a lot in how much they want to be held. Some demand a lot of attention, while others can spend long periods of time sitting calmly by themselves. If your baby likes the attention, pick her up, wear her in a front carrier or sling, or place her next to you.

She can't take it anymore

While newborns often thrive on attention, they can easily become overstimulated and have a meltdown. You may find that your baby cries longer than usual after spending a holiday with many adoring family members or has periods at the end of each day when she seems to cry for no reason. Newborns have difficulty processing all the stimulation they receive — the lights, the noise, being passed from hand to hand — and can become overwhelmed by too much activity. Crying is their way of saying, "I've had enough." This usually happens when your baby is tired. Take her somewhere calm and quiet and let her vent for a while, and then see if you can get her to sleep.

She doesn't feel good

If you've just fed your baby and checked that she's comfortable (she can be troubled by something as subtle as a hair wrapped around her toe or a clothing tag that's poking her), but she's still crying, consider checking her temperature to make sure she isn't ill. The cry of a sick baby tends to be distinct from the hunger or frustration cry, and you'll soon learn when your baby's cries "just don't sound right" and she needs to be taken to the doctor.None of the aboveSometimes you might not be able to figure out what's wrong. Many newborns develop periods of fussiness when they're not easily soothed. These fussy periods can range from a few minutes of crying to full-blown colic. Colic is defined as inconsolable crying for at least three hours a day and at least three days a week. Even if your baby isn't crying this much, these episodes may be difficult for you. When all else fails, try the tips below.

Pregnancy journey

2007-03-20T00:22:00.000+08:00

After several months after give birth to my baby, now only settle down, and at the same time got this opportunity to allow us (me and my hubby) write our blog here.

When we got to know that I am pregnant, we feel so excited, no words can describe on it. (I think most of the going to be parents will have this kind of feeling)

Just would like to share with you some of the information and experience we have throughout the pregnancy process.

As a Mummy responsibilities:-
Took more nutritient food, if possible home cooking, below are the food that I used to take while pregnant
- Corn
- Muesli
- Sweet potato
- Green vegetables
- Fruits
- Milk powder (annum)
- Bird nest
- Sun Seeds
- Chinese herbs (dong chong chao)

- Relax, rest more
- listening to the music
- Always chat with your baby, she/he will listen and learn.
- read more articles regarding the baby weekly status
- must strictly follow the pregnancy checkup schedule

As a Daddy responsibilities:-
- Accompany your wife more often
- Cook for your wife, or help to clean up after cooking.
- Massage for your wife’s leg when swallon
- read more articles regarding the baby weekly status

Enjoy the whole pregnancy process, snap shot of the photo, perhaps write in your diary and give to your baby as a gift when she/he grow up. I am sure they will appreciate it.

7-Week-Old

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Gimme, gimme. Your baby's movements are slowly becoming smoother and more coordinated. Her newborn ability to reflexively grasp objects is fading away. You'll notice your baby can now grab objects voluntarily — rattles, spoons, you. She may grasp them for a short time before letting go. Expect random, jerky movements for another month or so.

Now that she can hold her head steady, see more clearly, and understand that her fingers and hands are attached to her body, she may think that the rattle is an extension of her hand, too. You can encourage hand practice by making sure her hands are free. Don't keep them tucked into swaddling blankets all the time or cover them with mittens to prevent scratching. Introduce objects and toys for her to hold that have a variety of shapes but aren't too big or too small for her hands (about the size of a rattle). Cradle gyms with dangling toys are also fun for her when she's lying on her back.

How your baby's growing

You may notice short periods of time when your newborn is quiet and alert. This is prime time for learning: Your baby's brain will grow about 5 centimeters during her first three months!

Use these calm intervals to get better acquainted with your baby — talk to her, sing to her, describe the pictures on the walls. She may not be able to add to your conversation just yet, but she's learning nonetheless.New textures for her hands to feel and new sights and sounds (all in moderation) are all learning opportunities. Even bath time becomes a laboratory for understanding life.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 7-week-old's development.

Your life: Guilt over not breastfeeding

Today's society puts a lot of pressure on new moms to breastfeed. No doubt breast milk is the perfect first food. However, there are many reasons why breastfeeding just doesn't work for some women and their babies, including illness, discomfort, and frustration.

Guilt over not breastfeeding can hit especially hard if you had planned all during pregnancy to do so but then circumstances, such as having a preemie or a c-section, made it impossible or more difficult than you'd expected. Some moms find that after hours and days of breastfeeding attempts, their breasts simply won't produce enough milk to satisfy their newborn.

Both breast milk and commercial formula nourish growing babies. If you've given up on breastfeeding — or are thinking of doing so — be sure to discuss your choice with your doctor or a certified lactation consultant. Talk through your feelings and don't be too hard on yourself. The main thing to remember is that how you feed your baby is ultimately not as important as providing her with love and care.

3 questions about: Hearing

How do I know if my baby can hear okay?
"She sleeps through everything!" you might marvel. "But is her hearing all right?" Most babies have excellent hearing. A baby who turns when you enter the room or is beginning to coo and make pre-speech sounds probably has fine hearing. You can check this in a simple way: When your baby's awake and in her alert state, stand behind her and clap your hands behind her head. She should startle at this loud, sudden noise if her hearing is fine. Repeat it a couple of times to be sure.

What can cause hearing problems?
Some babies are born with hearing difficulties because of a hereditary problem. A family history of deafness can be a red flag. Other causes include exposure to rubella (German measles) in utero, problems during delivery that compromised the supply of oxygen to the baby, or prematurity. There are also some birth defects that cause deafness. And in some cases, a hearing problem might be temporary, caused by a cold or ear infection. Or the inner ear could be damaged because of an injury, a tumor, or a virus.

What if there's a problem?
If you have any concern about your baby's hearing, be sure to tell your pediatrician, who can run other tests or refer you to an audiologist (hearing specialist).Early diagnosis is important regarding hearing. Even babies who have hearing loss can be fitted with hearing aids nowadays. Later, such children may be candidates for a cochlear ear implant, a device that uses electrodes to process sound, and speech therapy.

Your Fortune at Birth - Part 2

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Born in the Autumn (September, October, November))

Hai
Born on the Emperor's Head This birth situation is especially beneficial for girls, as it indicates you will have a very comfortable and stable life with plenty of good fortune and prosperity luck. But both genders will benefit from the wonderful good fortune of being born on the emperor's head in autumn.

Tze & Choh
Born on the Emperor's Hands This is an extremely auspicious situation of birth, as there is the promise of wealth coming from the four directions. Each time you travel, you will meet with a person of high standing who will help and assist you. You will benefit by going overseas to study or to work.

Cher & Wu
Born on the Emperor's Shoulders This birth situation suggests that there is prosperity luck and you will become rich in your middle age. You will also have the help of your siblings, especially your brothers. You are blessed with many genuine friends.

Sen
Born on the Emperor's Stomach This birth situation indicates that you will keep company with many clever people. They are people who excel in their career and their study and their presence in your life will inspire you to be ambitious. Happiness brings good fortune, so you must develop a happy disposition and be smiling at all times.

Mao & Wei
Born on the Emperor's Girth You will enjoy an abundance of food and clothing during your middle age. Your sons and grandsons will bring you much happiness and contentment, so you have quite outstanding descendants luck. Those with this birth situation will benefit if they get married at a young age and start a family in their twenties.

Yiu & Yu
Born on the Emperor's Knee You will need to work very hard during your early years and there may be some setbacks, but you are blessed with good fortune in later life. Those who have this birth situation should rejoice and never feel discouraged, as their success when they are older will more than make up for setbacks they may experience in their early years.

Shih & Shen
Born on the Emperor's Feet Your whole life will be safe and peaceful and there is nothing to fear in terms of being hurt by others. If you are ambitious and have the determination to succeed, you can reach great heights professionally. Even if you do not reach the top, you will nevertheless be content with what you have. Therein lies the secret of your happiness.

Born in the Winter (December, January, February)

Tze
Born on the Emperor's Head If you are born on the Emperor's head in winter, you will make a brilliant marriage. Your spouse will be a well respected person who comes from a highly regarded family background. You will have luxury in your life with enough food and clothes.

Hai & Wu
Born on the Emperor's Hands You will have good family surroundings and there will always be occasions for rejoicing. You will be especially successful in your old age, when you have passed your 60th birthday

Yu & Mao
Born on the Emperor's Shoulders You are blessed with exceptional descendants luck, so there are many sons and grandsons in your life. You will have some problems and setbacks during your growing-up and early career years, but you will enjoy good luck in later life. A great deal of your luck will be brought to you by your spouse and then by your sons and grandsons.

Cher
Born on the Emperor's Stomach You are one person who is sure to enjoy singing, socializing and glamorous parties. And you have the luck to enjoy this lifestyle, as there is both prosperity and longevity in your life. It is however important for you to undertake some charitable work or donate to charity during your middle-aged years. This will bring you even more good fortune.

Yiu & Sen
Born on the Emperor's Girth You will be blessed with exceptional good fortune in your old age when there is gold, asset accumulation and a thriving business in your family. You have the luck to grow old with someone you care for and love.

Choh & Wei
Born on the Emperor's Knees You will have enough to eat and survive on, but little left over, and during your middle-aged years, there will be some truly trying times. It is incredibly vital for you to do charity and devote some time to caring for others. This will dissolve much of the negative chi that surrounds you.

Shen & Shih
Born on the Emperor's Feet You should live away from your parents and grandparents, as it benefits you to have your own dwelling place. If you have your own home, you will enjoy good fortune. The further away you are from your ancestral home, the better it will be for you.

Your Fortune at Birth - Part 1

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Your Fortune at Birth - Part 1

From the Imperial Tung Shu comes this incredible poem of the four seasons ascribed to the legendary Yellow Emperor. From the poem can be obtained general indications of what life holds in store for a newborn baby. It is believed that depending on your season of birth, your life can be full of burdens or full of abundance. It all depends on which part of the Emperor's body you were born on. We present here brief predictive details of the four seasons poem for those wishing to investigate how, and at what stage of their life, they will enjoy the patronage and goodwill of the Emperor.

The incredible Chinese Tung Shu is filled with the most fascinating esoteric information relating to destiny analysis, as well as the meanings of signs, marks and symbols. One of the more tantalizing chapters relate to making a quick and general forecast of a person's life destiny, based on the seat assigned to us when we are born. This is based on the season of one's birth, as well as the time of birth i.e. the exact time when the baby is expelled or removed from the mother's womb.

Thus you first need to determine the season of birth - spring, summer, autumn or winter. The season of spring would be March, April and May; the season of summer would be June, July and August; the season of autumn would be September, October and November; while the season of winter would be December, January and February.

Next, you will need to determine your hour of birth based on the 12 earthly branches. This divides a 24-hour day into twelve time segments of two hours each, with each time segment representing one of the Chinese astrological animals. With these two pieces of information, you then need to look at the illustrations of the Yellow Emperor wearing the robes of the seasons - green robes for the spring, red robes for the summer, white robes for the fall and blue robes for the winter

Look at the Emperor that corresponds with your season of birth, then locate on which part of the Emperor you were born based on your time of birth. Note from the time chart of the twelve time segments that each two-hour period has a special name. Locate the hour name on the Emperor's body and then check against the meaning given. For example, if your hour pillar is Mao in the season of summer, you look for the illustration of the Emperor in the summer season, locate where your hour name is located on his body and then read the meaning given under summer.

Use the table and diagram here to determine on which part of the Emperor you were born, then refer to the descriptions below to find your destiny.

Born in the Spring (March, April, May)

Cher
Born on the Emperor's Head You will hold a high position in life. You have power and great intellectual capability. You are also blessed with wisdom. This person has authority, power and responsibility. Such a person must be well brought up and properly educated.

Tze & Wei
Born on the Emperor's Hands Your attainments will be average and it is more beneficial if you work at starting your projects as the second-in-command and not as the leader. You can rise up high being the right-hand-man of someone powerful and wealthy.

Yu & Mao
Born on the Emperor's Shoulders You will never be short of clothes on your back, which means you will always be able to make a good living. There will be no shortage of the basic necessities of life, including owning a home and property.

Wu
Born on the Emperor's Stomach Your serious good fortune begins only in middle age when you will enjoy great good fortune in terms of the luxuries of life. There is plenty of food, clothing and all the material pleasures in this life.

Choh & Hai
Born on the Emperor's Girth You will go through many changes in your life and as you get higher up the social ladder, you will transform a great deal. This transformation may be for good or bad and it is advisable that if you are in this situation, you should strive to change for the better and become more humble as you become more important in your work and life.

Shen & Shih
Born on the Emperor's Knee You will have to travel a great deal in your life, so you can view this as good or bad depending on whether you enjoy travelling or not. Professionally, your life will be full of journeys. And like the wanderer, life is unsettled and transient.

Sen & Yiu
Born on the Emperor's Feet This indicates that there will be two marriages in your life. This is especially true for women born into this position. For men, being born on the Emperor's feet suggests a restless nature that is not easy to please.

Born in the Summer (June, July, August)

Wu
Born on the Emperor's Head This is an auspicious indication, since anyone born on the Emperor's head in the Summer will never have any worries. There are no obstacles and difficulties in this person's entire life. This also suggests a person who will have an excellent intellect, and who is good at strategic thinking and planning.

Tze & Choh
Born on the Emperor's Hands This birth situation suggests that you will have more than sufficient money and business luck. Your good fortune improves with the years and you will attain great success during the later stages of your life.

Mao & Yu
Born on the Emperor's Shoulders You are so lucky if you have this birth situation, since it brings you a lifetime of wealth and prosperity, lacking for nothing. You will amass a fortune during your lifetime, and in your old age, you will own plenty of properties. If you live an honourable life, you will be blessed with plenty of grandchildren and live to an old age.

Cher
Born on the Emperor's Stomach This birth situation indicates there is plenty to eat and more than sufficient clothes to wear and to enjoy. There is good fortune luck from your late forties onwards. You will not have to worry about your old age for you will be well looked after. Wei & Hai Born on the Emperor's Girth This birth situation suggests that you will have loving parents and be surrounded by noblemen and important people. What you make of your good fortune at birth will depend on your own efforts.

Shen & Shih
Born on the Emperor's Knees It will be hard for you to be given the recognition for the work you do. There will be obstacles that can stand in your way and unless you can overcome this lack of recognition luck, by middle age, you will be exhausted.

Yiu & Sen
Born on the Emperor's Feet This birth situation brings an easy life where everything comes easily, especially to those born male. Also, if you are of the male gender, it is likely you will have more than one wife. Women will find you irresistible. You will be blessed if you have a good attitude and a pure motivation.

6-Week-Old

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Has your baby smiled at you yet? If not, he will soon. At 6 weeks, about half of all babies can recognize their parents, and many of those babies are so delighted that they welcome Mom or Dad with an excited, gurgly grin. This "social smile" is one of the first signs that your baby is developing an ability to socialize. Not to mention, it's one of the more emotionally gratifying milestones you'll see your baby reach.

That's not all. Your baby can also squint, purse his lips, raise his eyebrows, and widen his eyes. His mannerisms are unconscious at this point — when he squints, don't assume he's thinking deep thoughts. But your baby has been closely observing your behaviors, and he's experimenting with the different facial expressions he's seen modeled. Think of it as "practice expressiveness." By doing this, he's becoming more and more capable of learning communication skills that will help him get along in the world.

How your baby's growing

Now that your baby's awake for longer periods during the day, you can use these times to support his sensory development. Try singing your favorite lullabies or playing music.

You don't have limit yourself to children's songs. Fill the house with the sounds of music — from the Black Eyed Peas to Mozart — and watch as your baby expresses his pleasure through coos, lip smacks, and jerking arm and leg movements.

Your baby might also enjoy the sound of wind chimes or a ticking clock. The more varied the offerings, the richer the impact. Inevitably, you'll notice that your baby responds to and favors some selections more than others as he begins to develop preferences.• Learn more fascinating facts about your 6-week-old's development.

Your life: Sex after the baby
You're tired beyond belief. Your sexual desire is nil (thanks to readjusting hormone levels, particularly if you're breastfeeding). Everyday life with a baby is so different from the life you were living when he was conceived that those days seem a distant memory. Just because your doctor proclaims you physically ready for intercourse doesn't mean the rest of you is ready to go along, even if your mate is.Whether or not you feel like making love, you and your partner can still focus on loving one another. In a University of Wisconsin study, 65 percent of women petted with their partner during the first month after childbirth and 34 percent performed oral sex, while only 17 percent had intercourse.Here are a few common postpartum concerns about sex:

Will intercourse hurt?
If you had any stitches due to a tear in your vagina or an episiotomy, your vagina may still feel tender, and it may be months before the soreness goes away. Because the missionary position may put pressure where you're sorest, consider other positions. If you're breastfeeding, changes in your hormone levels may lead to vaginal dryness; if so, try using a lubricated condom or a lubricant like K-Y Jelly.

Has my vagina been stretched out?
No. The vagina is very elastic — it expanded to accommodate your baby and then reverted to pre-pregnancy size afterward. Childbirth doesn't permanently stretch it out of shape. However, Kegel exercises can help strengthen your vagina's muscle tone.

Will my husband still be attracted to me sexually?
If your husband seems distant or less interested in sex himself, remember he's going through a lot, too. It's likely he may also be exhausted and stressed by the new demands of having a baby in the house. He also may need time to get adjusted to the fact that his sexy wife is now a mother, too. Talking frankly about your feelings and all the weird changes having a baby brings can draw you closer. If the time's not yet right for sexual intercourse, you can still cuddle, kiss, hug, and please each other in other ways.

3 questions about: Fever

Why does my baby have a fever?
This may be your baby's first fever, so you're probably nervous. But take heart in knowing a fever is a sign that your baby's immune system is working hard to fight an infection. It's actually a good thing rather than a problem in and of itself.

Should I call the doctor?
Until your baby reaches the 3-month mark, you should always seek medical advice if:
• Your baby has a rectal temperature over 100.4 degrees Fahrenheit (38 degrees Celsius).
• Your baby looks pale or flushed, is listless, or has no appetite, or if his behavior and appearance have changed in ways that worry you.The doctor will help determine how serious your baby's fever is and tell you whether it's safe to give him medicine. Be sure not to give your baby medicine before talking to a doctor — it can be dangerous to give him the wrong doseage, and medication can mask your baby's symptoms, making it hard for the doctor to give appropriate care.How can I make my baby more comfortable?
• Cool him off by removing layers of clothing or giving him a sponge or tub bath with lukewarm water.
• Feed him regularly and offer extra feedings, to help prevent dehydration.
• If the doctor recommends it, give your baby the appropriate dose of acetaminophen.
• Never try to cool a baby by rubbing alcohol on his skin, as it can be absorbed and cause seizures or other serious problems..

5-Week-Old

2007-03-09T10:16:00.000+08:00

Your baby is learning she has hands and fingers and feet and toes. Until now, she didn't realize her extremities were a part of her body that she could grab hold of whenever she liked. Games that involve feet or hands — like "This Little Piggy Went to Market" — help your baby focus her attention on them. (And they're fun, too.)

Your little one is also starting to talk more. Not with words, of course, but her increasing goos, gurgles, and grunts mark the beginning of her development of language skills. Her favorite sound is the human voice, particularly your voice and that of your partner. Talk to your baby every chance you get. She's particularly attentive to high-pitched voices, and you'll be able to keep her attention by shifting from a low to a high pitch. This sing-song style is the one parents in every culture tend to use naturally when speaking to a baby. It's known as "motherese" (even when dads use it).

How your baby's growing
Smiling happens at about the same time in all cultures, so get ready for your baby to reward all your loving care with a beaming, toothless, just-for-you smile. This will probably make your heart melt, even if you've just had your worst night yet.

For Ron Heckman, a new father in Piedmont, California, that first smile from his 6-week-old daughter, Hadley, brought tears to his eyes. "It was a lousy day at work," he recalls. "I was sleep-deprived and the commute traffic that day was incredibly thick. When I finally got home and my wife handed me the baby, who looked straight at me and smiled this gorgeous all-gums grin, I remember thinking, 'She knows me' — and nothing else mattered."

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 5-week-old's development.

Your life: The postpartum checkup

Soon you'll have the last of the series of checkups that began with your first prenatal trip to your doctor or midwife. Your care provider will want to be sure you're doing fine — emotionally as well as physically — following the stresses of pregnancy, labor, delivery, and becoming a new parent.

During the pelvic exam, your doctor will want to see that any tears, scratches, or bruises to your vagina or cervix have healed. If your cervix is healed, you may also have a Pap smear. She'll also examine your perineum if you had an episiotomy or tearing, to inspect the stitches.

Your breasts will be checked as well. If you aren't nursing, your caregiver will want to be sure there are no hard or sore areas that might indicate an infection. She'll also want to see if your milk is drying up. If you are breastfeeding, she'll examine you to find out if you have any clogged ducts, which could lead to an infection like mastitis.

You'll probably be told it's fine to begin having sex again, though many new moms don't feel their drive or energy kick in for a few more weeks or even months. Regardless of your interest level, you ought to discuss postpartum birth control, because it's possible to get pregnant even if you haven't gotten your period back and even if you're breastfeeding.

Your caregiver will also be concerned about your emotional health. As many as four out of five new moms become mildly depressed, commonly called the baby blues. However, if these down feelings last more than two weeks, you may have postpartum depression, a more serious condition. Your doctor or midwife can recommend interventions that really help, such as a therapist who sees lots of moms like you, or an antidepressant that's safe to take even if you're breastfeeding.

3 questions about: Working with your pediatrician

How often will my baby see a doctor?
Most pediatricians and family physicians like to see newborns for well-baby checkups two and four days after birth and then at the ages of 1 month, 2 months, 4 months, 6 months, and 12 months.

How can I get the most out of these well-baby checkups?
Pediatricians are busy, and you may be distracted by your baby at the checkup, so come prepared. Jot down in advance any questions you may have. Keep a notebook and pen in a handy place at home, and also bring it to appointments so that you can write down information like your baby's weight and length as well as any advice or instructions the doctor provides.As the parent, you're the expert on your baby, and as a doctor, he is the expert on baby care. So good communication is key. If you disagree with your doctor's advice or feel your comments are being dismissed, speak up. It may be that you've misunderstood one another. If you find that you have serious disagreements, you may want to find another pediatrician with whom you share a more common perspective or who makes you feel more comfortable. Ask friends for referrals.

What if I need to talk to the doctor after hours?
Be sure you know what the routine is in your doctor's office. Most physicians have a message service where you can call to leave questions that will be returned later by the doctor or a nurse. Also find out how emergencies are handled. The most important thing to remember about seeking your doctor's advice is that there are no stupid questions when you're worried about your baby.

4-Week-Old

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Your baby can now probably focus on and track moving objects. Try giving her new skills a workout by slowly passing a toy in front of her face or by having a little "staring contest" during which you walk slowly back and forth in front of her. Watch how her eyes lock with yours and follow along with your movement. This skill is a building block to hand-eye coordination, which will come later.

During the first two months, your baby will also learn to lift and hold her head up for short amounts of time. This shows you how much stronger her muscles are becoming. (Some babies lift their heads within the first week or two, while most take a bit longer to accomplish this feat.)

When she's awake, let her play on her tummy so she can make her neck muscles even stronger. This is especially important now that it's recommended that all babies be put to sleep on their backs, which means they end up spending a lot of time in that position. Make sure her head and neck are well supported at other times.

How your baby's growing
Your baby may gurgle, coo, grunt, and hum to express his feelings. A few babies also begin squealing and laughing. Be sure to coo and gurgle back, and talk to your baby face to face. He'll enjoy holding your gaze now.

If you have things to do, your baby will still enjoy hearing your voice from across the room. And don't feel silly about talking baby talk — babies are particularly attuned to this high-pitched, drawn-out way of communicating that can actually teach your baby about the structure and function of language.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 4-week-old's development.

Your life: Mixed feelings

Even when you're the happiest person on earth to be a new parent, it's common to have nagging little feelings of disappointment. Not that you want to tell anyone. But you spent nine months imagining what your baby would be like and now here he is — perhaps not exactly what you'd pictured. Parents of a baby born with a health problem are especially vulnerable to this feeling of not getting what they'd bargained for. But parents of perfectly healthy children often have such feelings, too:
• The mother of three boys who'd hoped for a little girl

• The older mom who probably won't have any more children and really wanted a little girl but got a boy instead

• The mom who expected twins at first but gave birth to a singleton after one fetus died in utero early in the pregnancy

• The mom whose baby looks like an exact clone of Daddy and not one bit like her
In all of these situations, there's a perfectly healthy baby to celebrate. And yet there's often an imaginary baby to mourn over before the real baby can be fully embraced. Rarely does anybody talk about this phenomenon, but it's perfectly normal and human. So if your joy is tinged with a little regret, don't feel too guilty. Give yourself a little space to privately grieve, and then count the blessings you do have.

3 questions about: Immunizations

Why does my baby need so many shots?
In her first year, your newborn will receive as many as 18 vaccinations. And for good reason: Immunizations have nearly wiped out childhood diseases such as diphtheria, measles, polio, and whooping cough that were once common and can cause permanent injury or even death. All major medical groups, including the American Academy of Pediatrics, agree that the benefits of lifelong protection provided by vaccinations far outweigh the remote possibility of your baby's having an adverse reaction.

How do they work?
Vaccines contain "weakened" or killed versions of the virus or bacteria that causes a disease. When injected, your baby's immune system creates antibodies that will defend her against the disease.

When are shots given?Shots given in the first year include the following:
• HepB vaccine: protects against hepatitis B virus, which attacks the liver. Three doses: at birth, between 1 and 4 months, and between 6 and 18 months.
• DTaP vaccine: protects against diphtheria, tetanus, and pertussis (whooping cough). Five doses: at 2, 4, and 6 months, between 12 and 18 months, and between 4 and 6 years.
• Hib (Haemophilus influenzae type b) vaccine: guards against meningitis, pneumonia, and epiglottitis. Four doses: at 2, 4, and 6 months, and between 12 and 15 months.
• IPV (inactivated polio virus) vaccine: protects against polio, which can cause paralysis and death. Four doses: at 2 and 4 months, between 6 and 18 months, and between 4 and 6 years.
• PCV (pneumococcal vaccine): defends against pneumococcal pneumonia, which is a common lung disease, meningitis, and ear infections. Four doses: at 2, 4, and 6 months, and between 12 and 15 months.

Vaccines your baby will get after the first year include varicella (for chickenpox) and MMR (for measles, mumps, and rubella).

3-Week-Old

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You're getting used to your newborn's routines and personality, and he's getting to know who you are, too. The world a foot or two beyond his field of vision is still largely a blur, although your face is becoming familiar. He also recognizes you by your particular scent and your voice.

Every baby has a unique temperament. Some are placid and agreeable, while others are more sensitive to changes in temperature, sound, or light. Your own baby's preferences will grow clearer to you as the weeks go on. For now, you can't blame yourself for not yet understanding his wants and needs perfectly. It takes time.

One thing all babies have in common is that they communicate with you by crying. Sometime in the first month, you'll begin to hear another kind of sound. That's when most babies find their voices. When your baby is calm and alert, you may notice him say a little "ooh" or "aah" when he sees you or hears you approaching.

How your baby's growing
Babies love and need to suck, so don't discourage it. In fact, you may have discovered that a pacifier works wonders in helping your baby calm down.

The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends using pacifiers at nap time and bedtime, based on evidence that using a pacifier may reduce the risk of SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome). When the binky or your finger isn't around, your baby may even be able to find her thumb or fingers to soothe herself.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 3-week-old's development.

Your life: Bonding

Some moms talk about feeling an instantaneous, consuming love right from the beginning. That's become the prevailing image of what "bonding" is supposed to be like. But bonding isn't a single, magic delivery-room moment. For more than half of new mothers, feeling connected takes a bit longer — and for good reason.

Birth, delivery, and recovery can be taxing physical experiences, especially if there are complications. If you've never spent a lot of time around babies, let alone been completely responsible for taking care of one, anxiety and worry about doing everything right can intrude, too. Your relationship with your child is not so different from your other relationships — it can take time and many interactions for those feelings of attachment to develop and ripen.
So no need to feel guilty if you look at your long-awaited baby and feel like you're staring at a little stranger. In a sense she is. Give it time and eventually you won't be able to imagine life without her.

If after several weeks, however, feelings of aloofness, or even resentment, continue, you could be suffering from postpartum depression. Ten percent of new moms suffer from this form of depression, triggered largely by hormonal changes after delivery. In addition to prolonged feelings of ambivalence about motherhood, accompanying symptoms include insomnia, anxiety, changes in appetite, and thoughts of harming yourself of your baby.

Postpartum depression has nothing to do with your fitness as a mom and everything to do with biochemical changes you have little control over. Tell your ob-gyn or midwife without waiting until your postpartum checkup. The sooner you seek help, the sooner you'll feel much better.

3 questions about: Colic

What is it?
Colic is extended frantic crying in an otherwise healthy infant. It's thought to affect between 10 and 25 percent of babies under 3 months of age. Some doctors define it by the rule of threes: three hours of crying at a time, at least three times a week, for at least three weeks — usually starting between the third and sixth week of life. Colic usually disappears around the third month.

What causes colic?
No one's sure. Some people theorize it's due to a baby's immature digestive system. Others believe the cause may be a still-developing nervous system or a baby's temperament that allows her to be easily overstimulated. Although colic can make parents feel helpless and guilty, you can't cause colic, and it's not a sign of a long-term problem.

What can I do about it?
Try to create a calming environment that mimics what your baby's life was like in your uterus: snug, swingy, and calming. Swaddle your baby firmly in a blanket. Rock her in your arms or in a rocking cradle. Some colicky babies are soothed by loud redundant sounds, such as a vacuum, dishwasher, or "white noise" machine, all of which probably sound reminiscent of your internal organs from the inside. Or combine sound and motion by taking a car ride. Other ideas: a warm bath, a warm hot-water bottle placed on your baby's stomach (make sure the temperature is comfortable on her skin), a pacifier.

My Baby

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Hello Baby Girl

Born: 13 December 2006
Gender: Female
Horoscope: Sagittarius

Baby's Guestbook

Janice

27 Dec 2006
U Hwee Papa, She does look like you! Congrat again :)

Wong WL

27 Dec 2006
Congratulation!!!!She is so cute lah and when is ur next production ???? :)

Edward

26 Dec 2006
Size like father... But she is a girl! Should seem like mother size then only sui mar

Hera
23 Dec 2006
Congratulation brother and sister for your baby girl. She is so cute :)

Elie, Ruby, Helen and Guan
23 Dec 2006
Congratulations! What a beautiful bundle of joy. May she be healthy and happy. Hope you guys are getting enough sleep.

LingLing
22 Dec 2006
Congratulation! A new baby has arrived... A big kiss to welcome her...Get ready for the warmth, the touch, the smiles, the love of a new baby. Remember, baby girls change everything for the better...

Wendy & JJ
22 Dec 2006
Congrats on your baby!! Looks really adorable :) hehe, look like the father :)

Christine chen
22 Dec 2006
hey..one look - like father. Will be "hou mia":) Congrates!!!!

Lam WC
22 Dec 2006
Congratulations !!! very cute baby gal :)

Jimmy
22 Dec 2006
Ah Hwee...exactly like u...tu kia..haha..make sure u hv a dozen.CONGRATULATION !!!

Lay-Choon & Chun-Yin
22 Dec 2006
Congratulations to the new parents!! She is adorable and definitely she got "look" gene from her father. Peir Shan- she will be just as lovely as you are!

Lee Ah Boy
22 Dec 2006
She is the next Amerian Super Model. When is your next baby?

Terence Teh
22 Dec 2006
Like father like daughter :)

Wan Chin......
22 Dec 2006
So Cute Girl girl.......... COngraturation for the parents ya..... Must control her food... facec like father nvm... but not size.... kekekek... kidding :P

Dennis Sin & Boon Keow
21 Dec 2006
Cool, pretty girl! look like father. :)

2-Week-Old

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A whole week has passed, but doesn't it seem more like a lifetime? Time goes by now in a whole new way as your world shrinks to the primary concerns of sleeping and feeding — at all hours. As you're adjusting to feedings and getting by on less sleep, your baby is also adjusting to his new world. He sleeps in short naps, wakes to feed, and spends some time quietly alert before drifting off to sleep again.

He can't see as well as an adult, but your baby does visually distinguish objects in the first weeks of life. Babies focus best on objects between 8 and 15 inches away — not coincidentally, the distance to your face when held in your arms. Research shows that newborns have a preference for the human face. They're also most attracted to high contrast of light and dark (as opposed to, say, soft pastels), which is why so many newborn toys come in black-and-white patterns.

How your baby's growing
Your womb was a warm and cozy environment, and it'll take time for your baby to adjust to the various sights, sounds, and sensations of life outside your body. You may not be able to detect much of a personality just yet, as your baby spends his time moving in and out of several different states of sleepiness, quiet alertness, and active alertness.

The only way your baby knows to communicate is by crying, but you can communicate with him through your voice and your touch. (Your baby can now recognize your voice and pick it out among others.)

Your baby probably loves to be held, caressed, kissed, stroked, massaged, and carried. He may even make an "ah" sound when he hears your voice or sees your face, and he'll be eager to find you in a crowd.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 2-week-old's development.

Your life: The baby blues

It seems to make no sense: At a time when you expected to be so happy, you feel down, weepy, moody, or irritable. In fact, there are very good reasons why about half of all new moms get the so-called baby blues.

During the first weeks home with a baby, sleep deprivation, recovery from childbirth, the demands of newborn care, lack of experience with babies, and not having adequate help can all be highly stressful. The huge hormonal shifts that occur postpartum can also affect your moods, especially if you have a history of severe PMS. Then factor in modern America's expectations about moms "doing it all" and new moms being "blissed out," and you have the makings of a perfect storm for mild depression.

Knowing that these feelings are normal can be a huge help. It's a good idea to confide your feelings to people you love and trust: your partner, your parents, a close friend, or a relative. Connecting with other new parents online or in your community can help provide the perspective that you're far from alone.

Carve out time for yourself. Let your partner or a grandparent stay with your baby while you visit a friend, go shopping, or just take a relaxing bath. Even sitting outside or taking a walk with your baby in fresh air can help.

Leave work behind. Really! Remember this is maternity leave. Turn off your cell phone and avoid your computer. Use these weeks to nurture your ties with your family.

If feelings persist more than a couple of weeks, tell your doctor. You may have postpartum depression (PPD), a more serious condition. Its causes aren't completely understood, but it's not a reflection on whether you're a "good" mom or "coping well." Symptoms of PPD include extreme anxiety, panic attacks, changes in eating habits (overeating or loss of appetite), insomnia, and thoughts of harming yourself or your baby.

3 questions about: SIDS prevention

What is SIDS?

Sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) is sometimes called "crib death." It occurs when a baby under 1 year dies suddenly and without warning, usually while asleep.
Should I worry?Even though SIDS is the leading cause of death among babies between 1 month and 1 year, it's still rare. SIDS claims about 2,500 victims a year, usually between 2 and 4 months. No one knows exactly what causes SIDS, although the following things are thought to increase the risk:
• A parent or caregiver who smokes

• Putting the baby to sleep face down on the mattress

• Being born prematurely

• Low birth weight

• Sleeping on a too-soft surface

• Becoming overly hot while sleeping

How can I reduce my baby's risk?

Always put your baby to sleep on her back. When pediatricians and SIDS researchers began recommending this in 1994, the rate of SIDS deaths fell an astounding 40 percent. Clear the cradle or crib of any pillows, soft toys, and bumpers. Keep the room cool, especially if you swaddle your baby.

Some experts advise against sleeping with your newborn in your bed during the early months because the soft bedding is a risk. Others believe that bed sharing allows a mother to respond faster to changes in her baby's breathing or movements. If you do co-sleep, remove fluffy comforters and make sure the mattress is firm. Your baby should sleep on her back even in your bed.

Never smoke around your baby and keep her away from those who do.

1-Week-Old

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Congratulations! And welcome to life's great adventure: parenting. For now, your newborn sleeps most of the day and feeds every two to three hours. Take advantage of the relative quiet of these first days to focus on your own recovery and rest.

Although your newborn depends on you for most everything, she's not helpless. Babies are born with many automatic reflexes that help them make the transition to life outside the womb. Stroke her cheek, and notice how she turns her head toward your finger and moves her mouth as if groping for a nipple. This is called the rooting reflex. She's also born knowing to suck when a nipple is placed in her mouth. If you put your forefinger against her palm, she'll grasp it tightly. If you hold her upright, she'll move her legs as if walking. Most of these automatic reflexes disappear within weeks of birth and become voluntary actions later — sucking around 2 months, for example, and walking much later, around the first birthday.

How your baby's growing

Your baby's eyesight is still pretty fuzzy. Babies are born nearsighted and can see things best when they're about 8 to 10 inches away, so she can see your face clearly only when you're holding her close.

Don't worry if your baby doesn't look you right in the eye from the start: Newborns tend to look at your eyebrows, your hairline, or your moving mouth. As she gets to know you in the first month, she'll be more interested in having eye-to-eye exchanges. Studies show that newborns prefer human faces to all other patterns or colors. (High-contrast items, like a checkerboard, are next in line.)

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 1-week-old's development.

Your life: Breastfeeding discomfort
Within two to four days after your baby's birth, your milk "lets down," filling your breasts. (Previously your nursing baby was drinking a nourishing pre-milk called colostrum.) Known as "engorgement," this important shift has an unfortunate side effect for some new moms: It can create mild to considerable discomfort. Why? Your body is forcing milk from the glands that create it into your nipples, and you're also dealing with a postpartum drop in hormone levels and the still-unfamiliar sensation of a newborn's suckling.

Your breasts may feel tender or hard and hot, and they may swell or seem to throb. Don't take this as an indication that breastfeeding is not for you because it's too painful. Engorgement is a short-lived condition that will diminish as your body adjusts to breastfeeding. Some helpful ways to reduce the pain in the meantime:
• Take a warm shower.• Apply warm compresses (such as a washcloth soaked in hot water and wrung out) to your breasts before each feeding.
• Express a small bit of milk from each breast before nursing. A full breast can make latching on more difficult, causing your baby to position his mouth in the wrong place. He then has to work harder to get the milk, which translates to tissue pain.
• Wear a supportive nursing bra. Some women prefer to wear one even at night.
• Nurse every two or three hours. Don't avoid feedings because of the pain. The more you nurse, the better your breasts will feel. Alternate breasts.
• Apply a cool compress after you feed. Try a baggie of crushed ice or a sack of frozen vegetables.

3 questions about: Jaundice

What is jaundice?
Jaundice is a yellowish discoloration of the skin and the whites of the eyes. If you press your finger against the nose or chest of a fair-skinned baby, you can see this yellow tinge. If your baby has dark skin, you can see the yellowness in the whites of the eyes. The most common type of jaundice develops on the second or third day of life — or about when the baby is being discharged from the hospital — which is why it's important to know about it and keep an eye out for it. Most of these cases, called physiologic jaundice, disappear on their own in two weeks.

What causes it?
A newborn has more red blood cells than his body needs, and if an immature liver can't process them quickly enough, a yellow pigment called bilirubin builds up in the blood. About half of all babies develop some degree of jaundice during the first two weeks of life. Preemies are especially vulnerable. Some breastfeeding babies develop jaundice if they don't get enough breast milk, because the bilirubin doesn't exit the body through body waste. This usually shows up around the second week of life. When jaundice is detected within the first 24 hours, it's often because of a blood-group incompatibility with the mother (the mother is Rh-negative and the baby is Rh-positive) or because of an underlying liver problem.

Should I worry?
Most newborn cases are harmless and require no treatment. In moderate cases, your doctor may prescribe phototherapy (light therapy). This involves placing your baby naked under special blue lights that help the baby's body break down the bilirubin. This can be done in the hospital or at home in a portable unit. A special kind of fiber-optic blanket has a similar effect. Your doctor may order blood tests to measure bilirubin levels. With monitoring and treatment, the risk of complications drops to almost none.

Welcome

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Thanks for visiting this site! This is where we are keeping all our stuff from now on, such as our life stories, baby development status, and etc, so come back whenever you want to see what's new. Feel free to post a reply if you see something you like or just want to get in touch. Enjoy !!